What a Difference a Day Makes!

I continually improved as the day went on yesterday, and woke up feeling so much better this morning. My new pouch that the ostomy nurse put on yesterday, seems to be holding tight, and I got on the scale and am up 3 pounds from my all time low! So things are definately looking up for me. Today, I am again having dinner out and getting caught up on thank you notes and stuff like that.
Had dinner with a great friend last nite, at a great place, but we were the only two in the place for the two hours we were there. I sure hope it makes it. CRU on Central in front of Kohls!!! Free advertising, they need it.
Talked to Aunt Loretta and cousin Karen last evening, and Loretta sounded really good, and is planning on going back to her own apartment today. Elaine will be going with her and staying with her for a while. Karen will be in town for a few more days, so Loretta is in her glory with so many of her family close at hand.
I hear good news on Frank as well, so your many prayers are really working. I even hear that Janet is going to live....she has disenfected her whole house in the process. Hopefully she will be healthy next week when we go through this chemo thing for the second time....hopefully I will be healthier too, to start as well.
Okay, enough of this rambling....thank you, thank you, each day is a gift we must not take for granted! Love and prayers, m

Good Morning

That is literally a good morning. Up early and feeling so much stronger than yesterday...kinda back to Thursday as far as strength goes. Not coughing as much, and think I'll get a shower and actually go out today. I have two dates, lunch with the ARCC retiree's and wanna bees, and dinner with Cherie Peck Rollings another former ARCC friend. May also see the ostomy nurse, if I can move up the appointment from tomorrow to today.
I haven't gotten on the scale yet this a.m., but yesterday I had finally gained back two pounds and I ate like a pig yesterday, so I hope it helped. Also decided I may need to use some of that imodium to get my self back to normal?? again. I think I will just take one this a.m. just because!! I maybe should have been doing that since Friday....probably would have helped. Hind site is always 20 20. But things to remember for the next round for sure.
Loretta is the proud owner of a new stent, and is back at Mike and Pandora's loving life. I believe eating Thanksgiving dinner of Turkey!!! Frank also seems to have turned the corner and they are moving him to a rehab hospital. Wonders never cease. I thank God for all the blessings he has given this family.
Also a big thank you to Annie for the tater tot hot dish and hot biscuits for dinner last nite and Jimbo and Ann for the Juicy Lucy they brought me for my pre dinner snack. Both tasted wonderful, and I hope added to my poundage! Love you guys so much. m

I see the Light!

I'm not exactly up and at em today, but I do feel like I'm getting better. Still woosey this morning, so didn't go to church, but have been eating and napping all morning, and think I am starting to turn the corner...having a sinus thing and cough going on all week, I'm sure didn't help matters either, but at least I came out in better shape than Janet.
Annie and the kids helped clean and do laundry for me yesterday, and great friend Jan Ranum brought food. Then Bill and Katie spend the evening watching the Olympics with me. Today, Annie is bringing dinner to eat later this evening, and I think Jimbo and Ann plan on checking in on me, so I have lots of help.
Glad to hear Frank is having some good days, and he will be out of ICU and into a place to recuperate and gain back some strength soon. Love and prayers to you all, Love,m

The Sun went down and so did I!

They had warned me that after the steroids they gave me earlier in the week that I would crash after they wore off, and it didn't happen Wed. or Thursday, so I didn't think it would....well last nite, and I crashed and burned....I could not peel myself off the couch, was so weak I could barely get to the bedroom and bed and still feel weak this a.m....although am a little better, I'm not falling asleep!!! and I am sitting upright! Have had some breakfast and looking for more food, as I am down again another couple of pounds.....how thin can I get??? I've never had to worry about this in my life....getting fat was always the problem!! Getting myself to gain weight is a completely foreign idea!!! I've always dreamed of being thin....but I guess not this way! Be careful what you wish for huh? Love and prayers, m

Sun Continues to Shine on Me

All your warm thoughts and prayers, are brought to light each day the sun shines!!! Sorry I'm late updating this a.m.....have been busy, organizing some tax stuff....showering....and cleaning....so I still have plenty of energy.
I still am worried about the weight thing, down a few more pounds....and I can't figure out why as I am continually eating.
Not much planned for the weekend, just hanging, might venture out to shop, back some muffins, and eat. Sunday I get to go to the Lenten Study group meeting at Pat and Dennis Tkach's home. Looking forward to that.
Haven't heard anything in the last 24 hours about Loretta, but do know they were thinking of doing a angiogram and maybe put in a stent. Keep her in your prayers please.
Frank seems to be holding his own....hurray!! Thanks for all the thoughts and prayers, Judy and I both know how much they mean to us! m

That Sunshine is back Again Today!!

Bracing myself to go see the surgeon in a few minutes to have the bridges he inserted in my stoma removed. I am taking a pain pill and having Janet drive me....but then Janet will be on her way back home to recooperate for all the nursing, cleaning, and loving care she has given me....all the time she was suffering herself from a sinus thing. I think I felt better than she did last nite. She was taking better care of me than of herself. Love you Janet!!! Thanks so much. I'll report later how I did in the comment section of this blog! Love and prayers, m

The Sun is Back Again today!

Today I get unplugged, and I will be done with round one, and only have 3 more to go....these will happen in 2 week increments, except for the last one, as I will be enjoying Florida for a week, and so my last session won't be till I return in April. The cold sensibility seems to already be lessening this morning. I plan on doing a shower this a.m., by hanging my pump on a hanger on the other side of the shower curtain. A good trick if I can manage it. While I'm at the HHH Cancer Center getting unplugged, I get to drop in on Imelda Neis, (her husband Joe worked with Dad and Gene at Midwest and the Star) who is going thru chemo for breast cancer. So that's my day...I'll be watching more Olympics....and maybe get some ashes this evening. Fat Tuesday didn't seem to add any weight to my body....it must be just a name. But I continue to stuff myself in hopes of gaining a pound or two. Love, thoughts and prayers, m
P.S. Loretta is back in the hospital...so again keep her in your thoughts, and Frank is still struggling to recover in ICU....has a trache and a feeding tube now....but seems to be holding his own.

The Sun is Shining on Me Today

The sun burned through yesterday, and it's shining again this morning. You guys are really saying those prayers for me. All the comments on Facebook, all the emails, all the surprise cards and gifts....I truly am blessed by all who read this.
Chemo is going well....the only side affect that is really noticeable is the sensitivity to cold. I can't touch anything metal with out getting this instant cold feeling in my fingers, so I have taken to wearing gloves when eating (cold silverware) and opening doors (cold knobs). I have to drink warm water or it's cold going down my throat....so it's all hot food and hot beverages for me....it's supposed to go away tomorrow when they unhook me.....we can only hope!! But at least I can live with it....wearing my hot pink gloves. Today I'm challenging Janet to Blokus, watching Jenny Potter (wife of the Coon Rapids High School girls Hockey coach) win another Hockey game this afternoon. I am feeling so strong!!! On Facebook, I commented last nite that I am Strong....I am Invincible...I am Woman!!! Thanks again for your support. I love you all. m

Don't see the sun yet, but I'm ready

I am packing my computer and will post to this blog, later this morning, from the Humphrey Cancer Center this afternoon.
Okay, hear I am....already an hour or so into it. I have a warm blanket over me, and that is making me warm like the sun is shining on me....so I'm soaking that into my solar panels....also having this warm computer on my laps helps too! Annie has left to get me some lunch (Subway) so that fact that I'm hungary is good.
Janet is at my house cleaning and getting ready for my arrival back home. I'll go home with a fanny pack and pump of chemo drugs pumping in for another 46 hours, and then I will return here on Wednesday at noon to get unhooked. So far so good.

The Sun Will Come Out Tomorrow!

Yes, the sun is shining today as well, but tomorrow I start my chemo, and I need that solar power, so I pleading for the sun to come back tomorrow too!
I went to church this morning, and I am dressed in real dress clothes, and I don't think you can tell I have a colostomy either. I was really worried about this, and it doesn't seem to be a big problem, so another hurdle crossed.
This afternoon, off to my Lenten Study Group meeting, the first of this Lent, and I am looking forward to seeing all my friends. Gene and I joined this group about eight years ago or so....and I truly feel like they are family.
My sympathy goes out to Tom Weimer (husband of Aunt Loretta's granddaughter Kim) and his family on the loss of his father last night.
Love and prayers, and Happy Valentine's Day to you all! m

Hoar Frost Beauty

It is so gorgeous outside, but I really prefer that sunshine. Yesterday, I actually left the house and drove my car for the first time in 2 weeks, and it felt so good. I also enjoyed my qigong (healing meditation) at the college. This has given me new strength....and I plan on attacking those spots with highly charged solar panels in my lungs come Monday's chemo.
I was pleased to step on the scale this a.m. and I am finally on the way back up, gaining two pounds. I have a long way to go, but atleast it is going in the right direction. Baked myself more cookies yesterday, so I'll keep fueling my body. Doing a good job of eating myself out of house and home.
Today I will hibernate, and watch the Olympics, probably will overload on them for the next two weeks. Got some more laundry to do, as I only made one trip to the basement yesterday, I have to retrieve some dry clothes and add another load to the dryer. Maybe I can do two trips and have it completed.
I will be going to church in the a.m., and then my Lenten Study group resumes at the Buhr's home. I am really looking forward to this as they have been a great support in my prayers life as well as my actual life in the past years. Great friends,I enjoy being and growing with.
Talked to Aunt Loretta last nite, and she sounded really good. I warned her to keep herself at the top of the list when she is doing all that praying for all of us.
Nothing else new to report. Love and prayers to all who want or need. m

Baby steps!

Good Morning, I have officially made it through my first day and nite by myself with no complications. I showered and changed that appendage attached to my belly, went to the basement and folded a load of towels Janet has put in before she left, and I even started another load of clothes, that I need to work on today. Today, I will leave the house on my own for the first time in almost 2 weeks. Sounds silly, but these are giant leaps for me. Being able to live independently is something I used to take for granted. I continue to stuff myself with as many calories as I can, but haven't seemed to gain a pound. But that is my goal for the week.
Going to have a qigong session this afternoon, thanks to Sheila Judd from the college. So my hope is that this will progress the healing from the surgery and clear some of that anesthesia out of my system, so that I will be able to accept the chemo's work and get rid of this cancer. Keep those prayers coming, love m

Sunny, Sunny Day!

Having the sunshine, always makes me happy. I truly am solar powered! Janet left this a.m. after trying to meet my every need for three days straight. She anticipated when my water glass needed filling, when I needed a snack, and actually felt sorry for me and let me beat her at Blockus....a family loved game. My sister Kathleen, insisted on beating me every time we played cribbage, so it was a great feeling to be a winner for a change.
I haven't heard any update on mom! Hope she is doing well. I think Elaine has flown in to help her again. Nice to know she will be in good hands. I'm sure Mike, Pandora and Richard can always use the help. My prayers are with them all.
Not any big plans for today, finished making valentines and baking yesterday, a combined effort of Janet and myself. So today I plan on getting in the shower again, and then changing my bag for the first time at home. Don't think it will be a problem, just hope it seals as well as the one the ostomy nurse did on Monday. Wish me luck. Love, thoughts and prayers, m

Just wanted you to see my new t-shirts!

I will be proudly be wearing my solor powered t-shirt on Monday when I start chemo. Thanks Karen and Reudi

The Sun is Shining Today

Literally!!! I'm feeling so much stronger as each day passes...I guess that is why they wanted me to wait to start chemo....it's amazing how much better I feel each day. Janet and I spent the day yesterday making valentines and I also got to work on the many thank you's. Got word late yesterday afternoon, that mom (Aunt Loretta) is in the hospital with chest pains and trouble breathing....so hope you all will keep her in your prayers. Also, cousin Frank is doing so much better....your prayers are being felt all around.
In my haste to add some pounds I ate some candy last nite....and also drank several glasses of peach ice tea (so much better than plain water in my mind)....but forgot what a sugar and caffeine high would do to me when I went to bed....wide awake till after 2 a.m.....I will be much smarter in what I eat before bedtime this evening. Keep those prayers coming, m

Hot Showers and Snow Showers

The snow continues to fall, but I could care less....not going out in it! But the Hot Shower, that was heavenly....I haven't had one in over a week, and it was like a full body massage. Then I put on brand new PJ's thanks to Ranum's....and I feel like a new woman. I unforetuneately got on the scale this a.m. to my horror, I'm twelve pounds down from my normal weight! So Janet is working on feeding me, and forcing me to drink water. We've going to bake muffins and cookies today, and then make valentines, and start on my thank you's...the first of which goes to the neighbor who has blown out my driveway everytime it snows, and redoing daily. Sending him cookies and muffins too! I continue to mend, and gain some strength, so your prayers are working. Love, m

Home Again, Home Again Jiggety Jig!

Well, I wasn't exactly doing the jig....but I would have loved too. I am home and Janet is here taking good care of me.....she even made homemade chicken noodle soup for me for lunch. Thank you to all the the have sent cards...and expecially a big thank you to #1 Cousins Karen....who sent me 2 T-shirts and this note: Dear Mary I know that you have probably started your first chemo session (No I won't start that till next Monday) I'm sure you're not having a good time....so, to make things more colorful, as well as fashionable, I'm sending you two samples of the very latest in chemo wear. For those days when you are feeling gray and totally lacking in energy, just put on the yellow Solar Powered t-shirt. With the over whelming succes of the adopt-a-spot campaign, you now have over 60 rays of sun filled with prayers and good wishes heading your way. I always picture your lungs as these rays and converting them into healing energy...The spotless t-shirt is to keep you focused on your goal...(Perhaps you can also share it with Kathleen as she cleans your house...) We send you lots of love from Switzerland....Your #1 cousin, Karen Unfortuneately Kathleen already went home...but Janet will try and take good care of me. Karen, I love the t-shirts, can't wait to wear them both. Love, m

Real Food

This morning, the doctor took me off the IV and said I could go home tomorrow. I need to see the ostomy nurse before I go home. My breakfast tray came and I even got to eat cream of wheat cereal...and some orange juice. Hopefully lunch will be even better.
Kathleen my sunshine all week, has left.....sad.....and I already miss her. Tomorrow when I go home, Janet will take over caring for me....for a couple of days. Wish Kathleen, Janet and I could have had the chemo party we had planned.....but I guess I'll have to plan something else to do when I get the chemo next week.
Going to watch the football game from my hospital bed....by myself....would rather be at Jimbo's. Love you all, m

Liquids are on their way....Yippee

Good morning, all three doctors have been in to see me, and they all reported that I was doing well....I get to eat today, and they are removing the morphine pump....so I can take meds by mouth as I need them. The plan now is to send me home tomorrow or Monday, and then to wait and start chemo the following Monday. That way my body will have a chance to heal some before they start the chemo. So things are looking up.
Dazy is all upset....she wanted spot number 69, and it's now taken....oh well, She will survive. Love you all, m

The Snow is coming down but I'm UP!

My lucky day, they pulled out the catheter and my nasal tube, so I'm only attached to one line right now....and that is Fluids. Kathleen and my son Tom are here visitng....what could be better. Still can't eat today, but they will start me on liquids tomorrow....with the possibility of starting Chemo on Sunday at the earliest. Keep chasing those spots away....I love you all!!! m
P.S. I even beat Jimbo at cribbage last nite.....or he felt sorry for me and let me win.....unlike Kathleen. m
Sorry, I missed a bunch of spot takers, Bill, Kim, Katie, Tommy and Carrie and Jason....so they will get 64-69. I will get you all added to the list.
Also, I'd love say a few thanks for the beautiful flowers I've recieved. Brad, Lynn, Karen and Ellie Woodward. Elaine, Jeff and Aunt Loretta sent beautiful orchids, and Bonnie and Bob Lammers sent a very cute smilly face mug filled with yellow roses. Jan and Lloyd Ranum sent a beautiful pair of PJs and some cozy socks....And a special thank you to Presley for the beautiful card she made me. Love you all, m

Plumging 101

Things seem to working well today.....I got a gold star this morning for generous amounts of fluids in both my bags....bowel sounds are good, my blood pressure has dropped immensely....somewhere around the 130 over 70....I sat up for over an hour and played cribbage with Kathleen....of course she beat me again!!!! You'd think she'd let a sick person win!! I have not used much pain meds either. So I think all is going well. I have had some problems with allergies today....they left 3 connectors for heart monitor on me after surgery, and before lunch I was already iutching, so they had to give me benedryl. My breathing into the spirometor is going good....I've hit 2000 a couple of times. I'm sure the thoughts and prayers are all working well. Love you, m

Wednesday evening update

This is Kathleen updating today's events for Mary. She had surgery tonight at about 6 p.m. to put a temporary ostomy in her colon to relieve her blockage. This ostomy was done by a very small incision to allow Mary to heal quickly so that she can move forward in healing and then possibly starting chemo next week. She managed the surgery well and we all talked to her later tonight after she returned to her room. She will likely stay in the hospital over the weekend and the doctor wants her to be eating food this weekend and making sure that she can tolerate it before sending her home. Hopefully she will begin chemo shortly after returning home. Then, at a later date.......probably after her chemo, Mary will have another surgery to affix a permanent ostomy.
We're all thankful that she can move forward now and receive chemo in the near future.
Love and thanks to you all for your prayers and support of Mary.
K

It's Complicated!

Well this morning started out normal, they sent me down for my daily xray and Kathleen arrived as I was getting ready to clean up....as soon as I went into the bathroom, the doctor arrived and had news....they had discussed me yet again at the tumor conference this a.m., and ruled out putting in a stent to relieve the blockage, as the placement of it would not be possible in my case. It would end up being too irritating to the anus. So the only other option is an ostomy, and they will do it this afternoon. It is his hope....that they can do it minimally invasive, and that they will start chemo as soon as I can start eating again...not waiting the normal six weeks to heal before starting. But I guess that will be up to Dr. Londer the oncologist. Dr. Schlaefer thinks they can. Please continue the prayers, and as for now I'll be in 421 W at North Memorial. Love ya, m

Twanky Intestines

Hi it's really me today, Kathleen brought my computer up to the hospital and I was able to get into their wifi after a couple of password changes.
The surgeon Dr. Schlaefer was in to see me this a.m. and he ordered a CTscan which I have already had. He had seen the xray I had yesterday, but he said it was hard to determine the cause with an xray, but that the CTscan would be much better. So we'll see what that brings, he thinks that if it is scar tissue, it could be taken care of by the method they are using right now....resting the intestines....which means nothing by mouth for a few days. They have me attached to an IV pole, for fluids, and they have given me antinausea meds and something to settle my stomach. So for right now it's just a rest and wait treatment. Thanks for all the thoughts and prayers, I don't know what I'd do without all of you. Love, m

No Chemo Today

This is Kathleen, subbing for Mary, writing to report on today's planned trip to the cancer treatment center for Mary's first chemo round. We arrived early as Mary has had a very uncomfortable two days of intestinal distention and vomiting. The doctor saw Mary and ordered an xray of her intestinal area and found that she has some partial blockages there. Consequently, he cancelled today's chemo (as chemo could potentially cause more intestinal distress) and put her in the hospital for a few days to rehydrate her and give her intestines some time to calm down, and she will not have any food or water by mouth until it is resolved. She is doing much better tonight as she has had some IV fluids today and some anti-nausea medication this evening. The partial blockage(s) are not likely cancer, but rather probably due to a flare-up Mary experienced from meds she had a couple of weeks ago at Mayo to prep her for a colonoscopy..... these meds gave Mary a bad reaction of constant vomiting, and may have left her intestines inflammed. It is also possible that the cause of the partial blockage is due to scar tissue............tomorrow Mary will meet with her doctors and maybe we'll have more news to report as to what is actually going on...........in any case, she's much better tonight and she will be waiting a few more days, or possibly a week, before they begin her first chemo round.
Keep those prayers coming..............they are much appreciated.
Kathleen

Sun is Shining and Warming Up

I'm sure the warmup has something to do with Kathleen arriving today. I'm so excited. I'm feeling great! Got a lovely card yesterday from Elaine (along with about 3 emails we exchanged) But I loved what the front said, so I wanted to share it with you. "May your day be brightened by the loving thoughts this brings. And may the angels brush away your cares with gentle wings." My day was brightened.
Did anyone see the full moon last nite? It was so gorgeous, just hope it doesn't bring strange things with it. I wonder what trouble Kathleen and I can get into? Hope you all have a good day, glad to hear Frank is holding his own. Love, m

Franks new CaringBridge website

Dear Mary,

A new journal entry for Frank Vermeulen's CaringBridge website was posted at 9:02:00 PM on Jan 29, 2010.

Read the latest update and show your support at: http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/frankv

Cold but Sunny

Good Morning, not a lot to report, but I did hear from Judy late last night, and she too wants to thank all of you for the prayers, as Frank seems to be getting better. I also got some wonderful phone calls yesterday, from some who don't have email, and just checking up on me, and some who do, and just wanted to visit. It was my son Bill's birthday yesterday, and I had a nice long talk with him, and then my neice Jessie called as her husband Paulo has the same birthday. I also got several old fashion greating cards, sent by snail mail, and lovely notes from my neice Blair and Mary Lou Mathoweitz. I also got an email from Imelda Neis, one of the printers wives and great friend who is also undergoing chemo at this time at the same clinic I am, however her treatments are on Thursdays and mine on Mondays, but we hope to bump into each other there some time in the near future. I also have her on my prayer list.
Late yesterday afternoon, I went to the movie "It's Complicated" with my friends Bonnie Sass and Lois Bjerke, and laughed our butts off. Great medicine. However, I had to say goodbye to Bonnie for the next two months as she left this morning for Sedona (the luck). She will be soaking up all the sun and sending it in my direction. Maybe, I'll get to spend a week with her. But for sure I am going to Florida the end of March, I sent in my payment yesterday. Not only will I have sunshine there, but lots of family and friends. I can't wait.
Today, I need to go shopping for Bill's birthday present and some food to make him, and the rest of the family, dinner on Sunday. So that said, I better get dressed and get going. Love and prayers, m

The Sun is Shining Today

The sun really is shining today. I'm feeling great too! It's amazing how much better I feel when the sun is shining. Let's hope the sun is shining on Frank. The report this morning, is they have him kind of in an induced coma, or totally out, and will remain that way for a couple of days....so at least he isn't in pain. They were unable to get a central line in last nite, so they will consider a port today. He is on a vent, his lung hasn't inflated yet, and he does have a fractured rib and a new fracture of a vertebrae in his lower back. So it's real serious, and we need to say some serious prayers for him and his family. (For those of you who don't know Frank....he is the husband of my cousin Judy, and he was battling lung problems back when I had my big cancer scare in 1996...they eventually did a lung transplant on one lung, and then a few years ago, they also did a kidney transplant from his daughter Cathy. He is continually on anti rejection medications and has of late had to be on oxygen continually....yet he still keeps fighting back....they had planned on spending the winter in California with their daughter and family till this happened, and Cathy jumped in the car and helped drive them back home in that horrid weather last weekend, and then turned around and flew home to her 3 kids.) Love, thoughts and prayers, m

Came through with Flying Colors

I'm home and feeling good. Everything went well, I don't even remember anything including leaving the prep room and entering the operating room, I was so out. Came home ate some toast and took a nap. Have talked to Annie, Kathleen, Tom, Karen and Janet, and figured I better update this blog so you all know how well I am.....on the other hand cousin Frank has been moved to ICU and is on a ventilator. Tomorrow they will go in and try to get the lung to inflat and remove any fluids in his lungs. He's the one who needs the prayers today. Janet had planed on spending the evening and nite with me....but she now is sick....and if better tomorrow she will be spending the day with Judy at the hospital. So.....don't worry about me tonite, just say a prayer for Frank and Judy. Love, m

P.S. Wyn (another former student worker) stopped in and visited with me before my surgery today...funny how all of a sudden so many of my former studentworkers have come back into my life.

Today's the Day!

Getting ready to go to the hospital to get my port inserted, so I'll be ready for chemo to start next Monday. My friend Bonnie Sass is going to spend the day with me at the hospital, and then our favorite cousin Janet is coming to spend the evening with me....as they don't want me to be alone for 12 hours.....I'll try and update you later this afternoon and let you know how I'm doing. m

Look for the Silver Lining and the Sun will Shine Through

Getting ready for the port to be inserted tomorrow....Bonnie Sass has agreed to take me and sit there till I'm done....I hope she has a good book...for Bonnie that shouldn't be a problem. The sun is now shining here in Coon Rapids. I think that is a good sign. I guess the power of all your prayers must be working.
Kathleen suggested that while she is here next week, she and Janet could clean my house and make it SPOTless....but I told her that would be a reach. Not that I think they couldn't do a great job....but it would take more than one cleaning.
I so enjoy reading your responses to my blog, and emails etc. Keep up the good work, Love ya, m

Finally Got the Show on the Road!

Jimbo came with me this a.m. to see Dr. Londer, and we now have officially got an appointment to start chemo next Monday morning at 9:00 a.m. I then came home and talked to Dr. Schlaefer (who Londer talked to while I was at his office) and he is now in the process of setting up a time to have my port inserted. He hopes to do it tomorrow or Wednesday, so I'll be all set for next Monday. (That now is set for Wednesday at 1:15 p.m. at North Memorial....may need someone to drive me to that.) The surgery will be done as an outpatient.....they make me drowsy but not really out. The port is totally under the skin unlike the catheter that I had problems with 14 years ago, so I think that will work much better, and they told me it has a lot less chance of infection. So that relieved my concerns about that....I also mentioned to both doctors the concern over the adhesive tapes etc. and Dr. Schlaefer promised not to put steri strips on the incision. I also mentioned to Londer about all my intestinal problems I've had since that "moviprep" episode, and he felt my tummy, and said he didn't feel any problems, so it's just still sore from all the vomiting and cramping I had. Also....my blood pressure was a little high (140/80) but nothing like it was last week at Mayo. So here we go!!!
This morning Joe and Sandi requested a spot, and they now officially have #54, and I just got a call that Frank and Judy are back home, evidently Frank tripped over his oxygen cord and fell into a kitchen Island and has 3 compress fractures in his vertabrae....I'm sure Judy will update us all on that soon. m

Good Sunday Morning!

COCK A DOODLE DOO!
I am a Jew
Jesus is my name
And I am known for my fame
Healer of the sick, the lame and the blind
I will make the cancer go and your lungs will be just fine.
Still looking for the sun, but found this in my morning email from Janet:

COCK A DOODLE DOO!
Make that spot be a Jew
Let it think it has strength like me
For I am the King of Kings
All who believe in me will be set free

That spot has no power
That spot has no fame
I condemn that spot to 12 Hail Mary’s
And to never return again

Cock A Doodle Doo
I sing this song for you

So who need sunshine when I have all of you sending great poems, prayers and love.

Today I'm going to church, then out for breakfast with friends, then possibly a hockey game of granddaughter Allies, then off to Jimbo and Ann's to watch the Vikings beat the Saints. Also continue to celebrate Nicks birthday, Today is the real birthday, even thou he has been celebrating all weekend.
Tomorrow is the day I see Dr. Londer and get this show on the road. Love you all, m

You Make Me Happy When Days are Gray!

The following poem was sent by Janet....she's crowing hard to get rid of her spot.

COCK A DOODLE DOOOOO!!!!
This poem is for you
Stomp out my spot and make it go away
For today is a great day
No spot of mine will stay!

COCK A DOODLE DOOOOO!!!!
This is my crow
I send my spot with a hearty throw
Go SPOT Go, See SPOT Fly
Now out of here and don’t return
Don’t even try!

Then I got this email from Denise Groll:
Hi Mary: I have tried to post a comment on your blog and haven't been successful, so I'll send the request in this email and cc my family, so we're all in it together.

On behalf of the Ed Schieber kids and significant others, I'm requesting 6 spots that we can adopt and our efforts will be to "shout them out"! Something like, "get out of there you stupid spot"! You have been such an inspiration and I appreciate your sharing of your thoughts/experiences as you graciously fight the battle.

Sending love and a big hug. Denise

Thank you so much, I am assuming Diane, Deb, Dar, Denise, Ed and Kelly right? I have had so much fun adopting out these spots, I guess you guys get #'s 45-50 wow! I don't know if my lungs have 50, but who's counting. They'll all be gone in a flash!! Love you all, m


I had a wonderful time yesterday with qigong, lunch and birthday party. Being around so many loving, caring family and friends really energizes me. But the rain and gloom outside makes me sing: Rain, Rain go away, come again another day!...and I continue to need your sunshine on days like today!!! m

P.S. found this in yesterdays comments:Hi Mary, Pandora and I would like to know if you have any spots left. If you do we would like two, We would not want the one to be lonely. By the way I here spots make good fish bait. I am taking the boat out so I will drop them to the bottom of the ocean. I will let you know what happened. Love Mike and Pandora So I'm giving them 51 and 52. Thanks again, Love m

Extravagant Grace Extravagent Love

Good Morning, I spent last evening at church for a Chocolate Retreat for Women. The evening was filled with dinner, chocolate in many forms, journaling, reflection, song and prayer. We ended with the song, Extravagant Grace, and the words "Taste and see that the Lord is good. He is gracious and compassionate. Slow to anger and rich in love. Extravagant grace flows down, Extravagant love all around. I can taste it. I can touch it. Its' like chocolate to my soul". We talked about turning our problems over to God and trusting he would take care of them.....You all know I did that in early December, and I have been lavished with love and support by my family and friends. I have an army of you praying for my spots. (by the way Jackie Patton took #43 this morning) I am at peace and know that God will carry me through this next period of my life. So it was so appropriate to celebrate God's grace last night with a group of women (some of whom are proud spot adopters). The last reflection question was "How can we reflect the grace God has lavished upon us so others see it when they look at us?".....I hope my smile, my laughter, and my love for all of you will continue to do this.
Today, I am going to have a Qigong session (energy healing) and then lunch with my former boss and great friend Rosie, along with a former boss of sorts and dear friend Brenda Dickenson. They both were with me through my first bouts of cancer....and I am so happy to have them with me now. Love, Thoughts and Prayers, m

Finally saw the Wizard! and he's mixing a Brew for me.

Well, I'm back home and have a much better picture of what is going to happen now. This doctor was very good at explaining the plan etc. They will use FOLFOX which is short for the group of drugs they will be using. He said it would be administered with a port and a pump for 48 hours once every 2 weeks for 4 sessions, and then they would have me come back to Mayo for a scan to see how it is responding to it. If spots are gone, they could stop till they start growing again, or if not, they would go with another 4 sessions administered the same as the first. He said this drug regimen does not make you lose your hair, but some people will have some thinning of hair. (Who knows in my care I never do anything normal) He did say that the most common side effect is Diarrhea (which would be nothing new for me) and controlled with Imodium (also not new to me) He said they have had a lot of success with this recipe, and felt that I was starting out strong and that was in my favor. He reiterated that it will not be cured even if the spots disappear, (they would just be dormant) but that it was very treatable. He took Dr. Londers name and fax number and said he would contact him before the week was up, as I told him that I had an appointment with Londer on Monday. So I am assuming things will start pretty quickly on Monday, and should be finished with the first 4 sessions by April. He also said these things could all be worked around vacations etc. So exact dates don't exist. But I plan on making the trip to Disney with the gang on Easter break for District 11 the end of March. So for now, we'll see what Monday brings.....keep those prayers going on those spots....with the army of spot adopters, I should have this made in the shade!!

Didn't see the Wizard....just a Surgeon!

We didn't really learn anything new today, kinda anticlimactic! We thought Dr. Nelson was going to give me the plan on what they were going to do with me, and she only agreed with all the doctors I've seen in the last week, that she would not do surgery, as long as it is now in my lung as well. So now when I drive down in the morning, I will see the chemo doctor, and supposedly that doctor will give me the recipe of what chemo to use, but then I have to go back to the Humphrey Cancer Center at North Memorial, and see my doctor there....I've already made an appointment for next Monday....and then hopefully soon they will start treating the cancer. We (my kids) and I are kind of thinking it was all a waste of time and money. When we could have started chemo a month ago.
I did adopt out another spot today, Rita Culshaw has taken number 36. Poor Janet has to come over and get me tomorrow morning at 5:30 so we can be at Mayo by 8 for the appointment with the chemo doctor. Hopefully the last trip to Rochester in a while. I'm not disappointed about that!

Off to See the Wizard!

Today is the big day! I get to see the Surgeon, Dr. Heidi Nelson, and get a summary of all the tests and doctors I've seen. I am waiting for Annie and Jimbo to come and pick me up for the trip to Rochester. Have a 10 a.m. appointment to see a Radiologist at and then wait around till 2:30 when we have the big meeting to hear the plan for my future. I have no doubt that all of you will do your part and taking care of those adopted spots, so now we'll see what the doctors will do. I will update later this evening. It's a foggy morning, kinda appropriate. Till then, hope for Sunshine! Love, m

Response for spots it overwhelming!

I missed Karen's comment about wanting a spot....so she get's #31. You all have been so wonderful...jumping at the chance to help me....I can feel the love and energy entering my lungs and turning those spots into beautiful butterflies and flying away into the sunset! That's my visualization during my meditation prayers....I know it is working! Thank you all, and anyone who didn't get a spot....I still have plenty numbers to give away! Love, m
P.S. Thanks cousin Karen for thinking this amazing idea. m

Out Damn Spot!

Hi Mary,

I want to claim one of your spots. I'm going to name it Shakespeare and and cuss "Out damn spot!" at it.

I was so surprised to read the news from your Mayo visit. I admire your attitude so much.

Lots of prayers for your healing!
Cindy

Cindy, I think you get spot #20 and a gold star for the best prayer so far!!! Love ya, m

MARY YOU CAN GIVE SHARON AND I ONE OF THOSE DARN SPOTS, WE WILL SAY MANY PRAYERS TO GIVE YOU THE ENERGY YOU NEED AND A LOT OF SUNSHINE. COUSIN ED They get #21

My friend Jan Ranum has taken #22 and Cherie Gardner and Barb Skierecki, have take #23 and they have named it Maxine (first one that has a real name!) but I still need to do adoption papers for them, then Kathleen has taken #24-30 for her family, Gary, Eric, Nathan, Blair and Jessie and Paulo. So the original number I came up with are all taken, however.....this was a guess, and the number could be 50?????? so I will continue to adopt out spots as long as people want them. Whatever it takes to get rid of them.
Got this email back from Jeanie, who adopted unlucky #13:
It said #13 for me in your blog, so I am considering myself the lucky one! #13 spot is the unlucky one and is on it's way, ta ta.

I look forward to the blog daily and have tried to post a comment, but have not yet succeeded. The communication coming from you is outstanding for all of us to keep up with you.

In order to post a blog, you have to click on the green comment at the bottom of each posting, sign in, and that is basically giving them your name and email address....wards off strangers we hope....but you give yourself a password as well and then the next time you go to post a comment you just signin with your password....I think. You can also become a follower, and they will email you with updates to my blog. So it's a pretty friendly blogspot. They don't send you junk mail or anything like that....and it's free.

Love & prayers for your energy to take charge, Jeanie

Here Comes the Sun!

As I was leaving church, I came upon Darrell Turner (A pillar of the church) and as I greated him, he said "Here comes the sun" and I knew he was right!
During church I was able to encourage adoption of my spots to Don and Dorothy Rein took number 7, Jean and Jim Ackerman took number 8, and Gary and Carolyn Buhr are adopting number 9. After church Margaret and Mike Kelly volunteered to take #10 (and Margaret really liked being a 10) JoAnn and Marv Erhler took #11 and JoAnn assured me that her sister Gwen Law would take #12. Then when I got home I opened my computer to find that Jeanie Podzimek has requested a spot, so she get's number 13. But she required adoption papers, so I'll have to come up with something for her. I think I'm doing pretty well getting rid of these spots...only 17 to go.
As a Schieber...."You Are My Sunshine" has always had special meaning, and as your love and prayers for your individual spots come my way, I will be thinking that you are my sunshine, shining on me and my spots! Thank you so much for the love, prayers, thoughts and concerns for me. m
Carol Kline took number 14 and Jimbo get's 15...then Math and Carol Stalboerger asked for #16. Janet has now promised to crow for #17 (inside joke), and Rosie Mortenson will take #18. Okay, Pat and Larry Wood get #19...only 11 to go! :)m

Adopt a Spot!

Just got off the phone with my special cousin Karen (in Switzerland), and she came up with a really cool idea for me. Each of you can adopt a spot in my lungs and pray to eradicate it! That way I can get rid of all those spots in short order. I have been doing some qigong meditations, and it has me taking in all that love and prayers you are sending and using it to expel that excess energy in my lungs. So giving you each only one spot to work on will help me a lot. I have atleast 30 to be adopted, so sign up now for your spot. Karen has number one. Who will take two?
I didn't go out last nite....just couldn't get out of my jamies....but I have a goal of showering and dressing today and going grocery shopping.....I'm pretty sure I'll make it.....I'm feeling much better this a.m.....but haven't lost the sexy voice yet. Of course that call from Karen was a real boost to my spirits. That and a few emails I got last evening from friends I hadn't heard from in awhile. I just want all of you to know how much I appreciate your thoughts and prayers, it is what keeps me going. You are the wind beneath my wings! Love, m
Adopt a spot #2 goes to Bonnie Sass, #3 goes to Carolyn Breitbach (I ran into her at cub and she volunteered! Heather Sorrell get's number 4 and Chris Spence has number 5 only have about 25 left....get your's now! Mary Jindrich Helgeson gets #6.

What's Next?

I had problems all nite with my sinus's draining down my throat, and now this morning I have this cold, and I sound like my voice is several octaves lower than normal. I put in a call to mayo to my nurse practitioner, but her day off, so left a message with her secretary, saying I was wondering if this could have had an effect on any of the tests I took this week? So I continue to be special!! Nothing normal about me. Poor Janet is referring to our two nites supposed to be a slumber party as "the trip from hell" lol. Sorry Janet! Going to pursue more Qigong treatments today, and then I plan on going out this evening, and pretending this week didn't exist for a few hours. Going out for dinner and a play with the women of the North Suburban Women's Club. Keep those prayers coming my way. Love m

Today's results

When I finally got to see my nurse practitioner, she went over all the tests I've had so far, and the results of the CT scan shows many spots in my lungs, and they believe that the rectal cancer has metastasized to the lungs....so then I saw a lung surgeon, and he said that the spots were so small and spread around in both lungs, so they could not do surgery at this time, but he thinks Chemo would be the route to go....if at some point the Chemo has eradicated most of the spots and their were a few spots that were resistant to the chemo they could then consider surgery. The PET scan also showed that the rectal cancer had gotten smaller for some reason....I am thinking the Qigong session I had before Christmas is what helped that to shrink. Anyway, I still have to see the head surgeon Heidi Nelson on Tuesday, and she has the final say on what is going to happen, but it looks to me like chemo will be the first line of action, and we'll see where that goes and then go from there. So continue those prayers.....it is treatable so that is good.

Waiting Game

Well....I got up early showered and ate a few bites of oat meal and slurped some coffee down, and by that time Jimbo was here to pick me up.....drove down to Rochester for my 10:00 a.m. appointment, only to find out they had changed that appointment to next week on Wednesday. But still have a 12:30 and 2 p.m. appointments before we can drive back to the comforts of home.

My stomach is still gurgaling and distended, so that stuff is still sloshing around inside me. Still waiting for the big blowout when it decides to come out. But till then we are just sitting and waiting. Love, m

Not a Happy End

Last nite, that dastardly stuff (moviprep) didn't prove to be the stuff for me....I was so sick.....cramps, bloating, and vomiting all nite, and then I had to drink it again at 4:30 a.m., and that wouldn't stay down either. Needless to say, they tried but were unable to do the colonoscopy and I will have to do it all again....hopefully with another product. I did have a PET scan after that, but between the two tests, I wasn't done till 2 p.m. I was so sick and weak, poor Janet had to drive me home. I've had a little sussess going to the bathroom this evening, but eating seems to be a problem. I did drink some gatorade my son Bill brought over for me, and I made myself some ramin....but only ate a few bits before I started to burp. So I think I just may have somemore water and go to bed. Tomorrow I have to drive back to Mayo, but Jimbo is taking me. I have a 10:00 appointment to see the ostomy department. I assume to get marked for where they are going to place it.....and I see the nurse practitioner and a surgeon who will be on the team of doctors working on me. Tuesday is still the day I meet the head surgeon Dr Heidi Nelson. Then I will get the plan, and know what is going to happen. More tomorrow. m

And So It Begins

I spent the whole day going from one office and test to another. First, someone took my history, then I had a physical, next blood work, chest xray and CT scan, along with meeting several different doctors and nurse practitioners. I made my way to the pharmacy, to stand in line to turn in the prescription....which was really a line to give you permission to wait and have your name called to go up and really turn in your prescription, and then I move to another waiting area where I waited for my name to come up on a screen, so I could get in another line to pick-up my prescription. All this for a solution to clean me out so that I can have a colonoscopty in the morning, and just as we were leaving the building, I got a call on my cell phone, they asked if I could come in early for the colonoscopy in the a.m.....I said sure without thinking what I was saying, now I have to get up at 4:15 and start drinking somemore dastardly stuff and sitting on the toilet for a couple hours before I go for my 7:30 appointment. When I finish that...I get to go have a PET scan before they will let me eat....so 48 hours later I may get to eat something other than clear liquid....okay, have I complained enough!!! This to will pass!!! Litterly!
Love m

Heading to Rochester

I will be taking off this afternoon for Rochester with Janet. I'm sure she will keep me entertained and laughing. My appointment for assessment at Mayo is at 8:30 tomorrow morning. I don't know what they plan on doing, but will let you know more tomorrow after that appointment. I appreciate all the thoughts and prayers, keep up the good work. Love ya, m

Lunch with the Retiree's and Wantabee's

Had lunch today at Pizza Hut with a big group of my ARCC family....love getting together with everyone. Was so nice to see some that I haven't seen in a long while and get caught up. It reminds me that friends are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly. Love you all, m

January Blahs!!!

Well, after a fantastic time at Lutsen, I had my last Christmas gathering of the year on Sunday. My friends Barb, Cheri and Jan have been getting together for over 30 years now, alternating between our homes and exchanging gifts and a meal together. So nice to have good friends like that.
Today, I had my cousin Janet come and help me take down the Christmas Tree. Just after she got here, her sister Judy surprised us both and spent the afternoon visiting with us. Judy and I did a good job visiting while Janet undecorated the tree, and after dinner and Judy was on her way, we took the tree down and out to the curb and I vacuumed up the needles. So that job is done. Thanks to the best cousin in the whole world!!! Love ya, m

Happy New Year

Thanks to all who supported me in thoughts and prayers, laughter, tears all 2009 and hope that it will continue in 2010. Love you, m

On my Way to Lutsen!

Good Morning,
I'm closing out the year as I have the last two at Lutsen, skiing with the whole family. Nothing could be better!
Thank you to all who have helped me through this month, and for that matter the whole year, for all those wonderful Christmas presents, the strong prayers, and the abundant love I've been surrounded with. I am the luckiest person I know right now.
My family gave me the most gorgeous pictures. I can't wait to get them hung on my wall. Proof, that Gene and I did good. Priceless! All the other gifts were just frosting on the cake.
Happy New Year, and much love to all of you. m
P.S. I'll tell you all about the ski trip next year!!! 2010?! I can't believe it!

Merry Christmas

And may God bless us everyone!!! It's snowing like crazy in Minnesota, I've packed my bag and Annie and Doug and family and Doug's mom and dad will all go to church together at 4 p.m. this afternoon, and then back to Annies for dinner, where Bill and Kim and family may join us too. But I think midnite Mass is out....don't want the kids to be out or myself in this weather. I'll sleep at Annies and maybe come home sometime tomorrow. Think the get together with Gene's family might not make it either. Just hoping that the roads are good enough for Tom and Karen and family to drive up on Saturday. Progressive dinner on Sunday, and then dessert and Santa at my house. What a crazy weekend. Love and prayers to all, m

Some Good News Regarding Frank

Hi,

Thank you for all your prayers and I am sure Millie, Your Mom and others have been on the beads.

Frank is feeling better, and received good information at the doctors on Monday.

The whole thing about blood gasses was much ado about nothing. It sure goes to show that seeing doctors that are not familiar with you and your history can really mess things up. Recently his kidney doctor left and he has a new kidney doctor looking at one test and getting a bit overexcited. Than two weeks ago seeing a doctor he had not seen before in Lung area carrying on with kidney doctors orders.both without knowing that Frank has had this problem for 3 years. His regular doctor whom we saw on Monday said not to worry that those were the same numbers Frank has been having for a long time.

He said doctors and patients get all worked up over numbers and sometimes should just look at how you feel.

We Frank is feeling better and his walking statistics have improved since 2 weeks ago. His oxygen test he did over night showed he could use a slight more but go from 2 1/3 to 3 litters only. Also if he is walking around for a while or exercising turn it up and go on continuous rather than on demand.

He gave us permission to leave town with a couple of easy restrictions we can live with. Reporting in some results from breathing tests Frank can do on his own. just to make sure things continue to improve as they have been until he gets back to normal.

I think we will be leaving about the 6th or 7th.depending on the weather. I am sure you will have your kids and Janet to watch over you.

Love,

Judy

The ball is rolling....but very slowly!!

Okay, they can't see me for the assessment till Jan. 12 and then the radiologist probably on the 13th, but didn't get the time....she said they would let me know on the 12th....anyway then I don't see the surgeon till the 19th (as she only see's patients on Tuesdays) and at that time she will give me the plan. If they want to give me radiation before the surgery, it could take 3 weeks and I probably won't have the surgery till the end of Feb. Talk about the slow boat to China!!! So Kathleen, you can go to your wedding in Texas, and I will have to see about cancelling my trip to Florida....doesn't look like I will beable to fit it into the plan. I'm a little angry about that....but I know I will get good care when I finally get it. Two years ago, I was diagnosed in Oct. and didn't have the surgery till Dec. 12....so I guess this isn't much different. I have to be there at 8:30 a.m. on the 12th, may want to go down the night before and stay over nite at a hotel, and then I won't have to get up in the middle of the night to get there. I have to fast from Midnite on, so I don't know what kind of proceedures they will be doing at that time....or how long it will take....then I have to see the radiologist the next day, so I wonder what time, if it's worth driving home and back again the next day......questions still abound.
One bright note, they already got my daily radiation reports from 1996!

I started the ball rolling!

I got the call from the appointment coordinator this afternoon (after 2 p.m.) and gave her a lot of information over the phone to get me registered at Mayo, and then started gathering the information they want before they see me. i.e. Daily radiation reports from 1996 from a office no longer there....but I did track them down. Ran over to Health Partners Coon Rapids and signed a couple of release forms, so they and North Memorial could send them all my records, and films etc., but still no date yet...hopefully when she calls me back tomorrow I'll have that. I do know that it won't happen till atleast January 4. So I plan on celebrating completely everyday I have with family and friends in the Blessed season of Christmas and the merriment of a New Year.

One step Closer

Dr. Schlafer finally talked to Dr. Nelson at Mayo this a.m. and said they definitely want to see me. They will be calling me around noon he said....and then will set up a time to see them. So I don't know how quickly this will go, but it's a start! Schlafer is also sending me copies of my PET and CT scan reports, so I will have those, and he is drafting a letter to Dr. Nelson, with all the pertinent information about my case history. He said they would definitely use their intraoperative radiation on me, and maybe do some radiation before the surgery as well. So....now I wait for the call from Mayo. I am going to be delivering meals on wheels, so I will take a calendar and pen along with me....incase they call while I'm out. Will update you all this afternoon, when I get back from my deliveries. m

No News Today!!

I talked to Dr. Schlafer a minute ago, and he said he has been patiently waiting for the Dr. at Mayo to call him back, but has heard nothing, and promised to bug them again on Monday and will call me on Monday and/or as soon as he hears something. He also said he really thinks that Mayo will be where I have the surgery and any other treatment. He can't imagine they would say I didn't need their special treatment. So we can relax for the weekend, and see what Monday brings.

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No news from the Dr. yet, waiting to hear from him this a.m. as he didn't respond later yesterday afternoon. The waiting games are always the hardest. Although I am still rejoicing that it is only rectal cancer! m

Good News of sorts!!

It is rectal cancer....the lab report came back, and I don't have to go in and have another biopsy. The doctor still hasn't gotten a hold of the surgeon at Mayo, but hopes to get a hold of her today, and will call me back after talking to her. He said if he doesn't call me back this afternoon, it's because he hasn't talked to her yet. But either way he will call me in the morning.
I am so thankful that it is just the rectal cancer back and not my liomyosarcoma!!! The lesser of two evils! Keep praying, Love ya, m

Wednesdays update

I spoke with the surgeon, this afternoon, and they are not sure yet which cancer has returned, as the lab work hasn't come back yet. So we are waiting on that. However they have decided that when they do surgery, they are going to send me to Mayo Clinic to have it, as they have a special kind of radiation there that they can do during the surgery, and one that I could have even though I've had my lifetime supply of the regular radiation. Will know more tomorrow. The doctor has promised to call and keep me informed as to what is going on. He is contacting a surgeon at Mayo by the name of Heidi Nelson. I may be in her care there. I promise to keep this site up to date, as it is the easiest way to keep everyone on the same page. It's hard to know who I emailed and/or called, so this will help a lot. Love, m

Christmas Greetings

Dearest Family and Friends December 2009
The holiday has ascended with the news my cancer is back. Most of you have responded with such love, prayers and support. I feel overwhelmed with the amount of love and calmness that fills my soul by numerous e-mails and phone calls all of you have made. God is actually carrying me through this and whatever comes, I know he’ll be there at my side, sometimes in the form of family and sometime as friends.
The year prior was incredibly fun with travel. Sedona in March with my traveling companion and friend, Bonnie, Sass, Southern Utah and many National Parks with my sister Kathleen, husband Gary, cousin Karen and husband Ruedi (from Switzerland). I spent the summer at the cabin with many friends and family visiting. During the fall, I was able to travel to Williamsburg, Virginia and Washington D.C. with 3 other women, and in October I topped it off with a trip to California to celebrate Aunt Loretta’s 90th Birthday. Many cousins from all across the country were there. Getting to know those California cousins was the greatest. Needless to say, I have the world’s best family and love them all. I also spent a couple of great weeks in Naperville, watching Tom and Karen’s kids while they were in New York on Business. So, I didn’t let any grass grow under my feet and don’t plan on it in the future either.
My children are all doing so well. Tom and Karen, now have a 16 year old daughter Emily, along with Kennedy 9, Will 6, and Presley 3. I have so much fun doing crafts, attending their school programs and sporting events when I’m there.
Bill and Kim have a superb long distance runner in Katie, age 13. Tommy, age 12, is active in scouts and little league. Luckily for me Katie, Allie and Nicole all play hockey and last year were on the same team, so I could watch all of them at one time.
Annie and Doug, are busy with Nicole 14, Allie 12, and Matthew 4. Nicole is a sprinter in the spring, runs cross country in fall and now is playing hockey. Allie does the same and excels in all. Matthew is in love with trains, cars, having Thomas and Lightening McQueen as his favorites.
Jimbo and Ann are now the proud parents of a 17 year old Jack, who is not only driving, but has a lovely girlfriend. Other than girls and cars, he plays baseball. Nick, soon to be 14, is also a baseball player, and runs cross country. I had the opportunity to watch 4 grandkids, all at the same time, at the same event this fall.
All the grand kids seem to be taking after their parents when it comes to sports, keeping their parents busy coaching, and managing their various teams. I’m really proud of all of them.
Wishing you and yours a Merry Christmas and a very Happy New Year.
Love and prayers,
Mary

Golfers Needed

Frank & I belong to an organization, Hope Chest News. Each year we have a GOLF fundraiser that brings out the best and the worst golfers wanting to help Heart and Lung Transplant patients. As always we are looking for Golfers July 27th. and donations for our Silent Auction. It looks very promising that our son-in-law Lloyd White, Cathy's husband will be able to play. He needs some more to join him.

This year we have a great RAFFLE also. Don't have to be present to win, 1st. $1000.00, 2nd. $750.00 and 3rd. is $500.00 tickets $5.00 each. We could all use a bit of extra cash.

If you are interested in any of these opportunities please contact me (Judy) javfpv@aol.com
or 952-445-2497

We really would appreciate your help.

New Chapter of my Life

Hi everyone, (or those who read this)
I started a new chapter in my life on Saturday as I am now officially a senior citizen! Never thought I would be doing this alone...or being retired before doing the things retired couples do...but here I am!
I am thankful and greatful for what I do have....a lot of great friends, some who find themselves in the same situation, and a family that spoils me rotten....or just on the verge of getting that way. I don't know what I would do without them.
As I just came in from trying to clean out the gardens around the house, I'm sure the yard and gardens will never be as nice as Gene kept them, so I do know what happens without Gene.
But the sun is shining and I am smiling as I know Gene and Mom are both laughing with me and at me!!!
Can't wait to get to the cabin...looking forward to a great summer...of sun and fun and family!!! Love Mary, Mom, Grandma, Cuz etc.

Great News

I just thought I'd update you on my health....once again. I had my annual colonoscopy on Tuesday and today got the results of a biopsy that they did. It was negative!!! Hurrah!!! So I have atleast another year till I have to prep for that test again. The prep is the worst!!
I spent the first week of April with my sister and her husband and my cousin Karen and her husband Ruedi (from Switzerland) traveling from one National Park in Utah to another. We had a great time even thou it was still chilly and snowed a few times.
Easter Sunday was great....for the first time since before Gene died we were almost all together. Tom and Karen and kids could not make it....but the rest did. Even had two of the families with me in church! My brother Phil joined as for brunch, and it was a beautiful day. The week has gotten continually warmer with lots of sunshine!!! I'll attach a few pictures from my trip, and one from Easter.

Back From Sedona

Hi all, I had a great time in Sedona, Dar picked me up at the airport and I stayed one nite with her and Cathie, then they drove me to Sedona the next day. I spent 3 weeks with my friend Bonnie Sass. We attended the Sedona film Festival and saw 3 great shows there, and saw 5 more films during the time I was there. I also read 4 books and started the 5th....I highly recommend "The Shack" and "The Last Lecture" but have your Kleenex ready. I hiked 6 great trails and saw lots of flowers in bloom, had a great massage, went to Tai Chi twice a week, went to water aerobics a couple times and went to the St. Patricks Day Parade and got autograph on Banners from the Arizona Cardinals Football team for my grandsons too! Got some sun, a few muscles back in shape and a lot of healing done. When I left Sedona I had my Schoenecker Cousins pick me up at the airport and take me out for lunch, so I renewed my relationship with them as well.
It was a great trip....but now I am looking forward to the next....I leave March 31, for Salt Lake, where my sister lives, and I will be joining them in welcoming my cousins from Switzerland. Karen and Reudi hosted us last May, so we are returning the favor....but only for 1 week. We will take them to Moab, Bryce and Zion National Parks in Utah, and then on to Vegas where they will meet friends from Canada. What fun!! I can't wait. m

Prayers Needed

Hi Mary,
Hope all is well. I need a favor from the family. I need prayers for Pandora's brother-in-law. I am enlisting the most powerful people I know along with anybody that can pray.
Pandora's brother-in-laws name is John Marra. His birthdate is May 29th and the name of his cancer is CNS Lymphoma. John is 57 and the father of two. The town they live in is Belmont, California. John was diagnosed May 11, 2008. After treatment last year his symptoms receded. John's symptoms have returned and he is undergoing chemotherapy. This is a rare, aggressive cancer and at this point a miracle is needed to save his life. I've heard miracles can happen. Love, Mike and Pandora

Life is Good!

So sorry I haven't updated this since Christmas....I guess I got attached to facebook, and haven't been here since then.

I am in sunny Sedona, Arizona Having a great time with my friend Bonnie. I flew in on Monday and stayed the nite with my cousin Darleen. She and her friend Cathie drove me to Sedona on Tuesday a.m. and we all had lunch with Bonnie before she headed back to Phoenix.

On Wednesday we did some grocery shopping and did Ashes at 2:00 in the afternoon and then looked for a bathing suit so I could do water aerobics on Friday. On Thursday we hiked to Bell Rock and layed around and read for the afternoon and went to a movie at the Film Festival which didn't start till 9 p.m.....so it was a late nite. Then on Friday a.m. we went to water aerobics and really got a workout. They don't stop moving in the water for a whole hour....I was a little stiff last nite, but don't feel too bad today. Then last nite we went to a 7 p.m. movie and it was really good...the nite before was kinda amaturish vampire movie....last nite was really great in comparison.

Today we came to the library so I could use the computer and then we are going to hike someplace this afternoon. Tomorrow we have the last movie to go to...as it is the last day of the festival.

So life is well for me, loving the warmth and sit in the sun as much as possible. m

Greetings from Snowy Minnesota

I wish a Blessed Christmas and a Happy Healthy New Year to all.
Some prayers are still needed for Neva, Richards wife who is still in intensive care, Jackie is having lots of health problems, Frank could always use your prayers....and I hear my brother Bill could use some prayers too! I sure hope each and everyone of you have as good a 2009 as I had in 2008. Thank you all for your Christmas cards, greetings, phone calls, and gifts. I truely have already had a blessed Christmas. Love and prayers, Mary

Christmas Wishes!

December 2008
Dearest Family and Friends,
As I watched “Charlie Brown Christmas” again, The Reason for the Season, hit me…the reason I’m here, the grace of the newborn child…then I found a Christmas card that read “our joyful songs, our humble hearts, our grateful lives…may these be the precious gifts we bring to lay before the newborn King.” And it was reinforcing to me how grateful I am for my health and my wonderful family and friends who have brought me through this year. Last December I wondered if I would make it through the year and here I am today so happy and healthy, that I know only God’s grace could have gotten me here. I had such a wonderful year. In March I spent 3 weeks hiking and healing in the warmth of Sedona and the company of a dear friend. Then in May I spent the month roaming around Switzerland, Austria and Germany with my sister Kathleen and her husband Gary. We made our cousin Karen’s home as our base and really enjoyed the warm hospitality that was extended to us. Her family was so fun to be with. In June I returned to a newly remodeled cabin that my kids had worked so hard to finish before I returned to surprise me! It was so wonderful. I loved it so much that I spent most of the summer there and rewarded them with a new speedboat for waterskiing in late July. Then this Fall, I traveled to Georgia and visited Joe and Sandi, on to Florida where I saw Jim and Linda Zimmer and then onto New Orleans where my friends Bonnie and Lois met me and we spent a week touring the town. Right after Thanksgiving I drove down to Naperville and watched the grandkids while Tom and Karen were in New York on business. So you see…life is short and I’m enjoying it while I can.
My family is also doing well, Tom and Karen are still both in “shoes” and their children Emily 15, Kennedy 8, William 6, and Presley 2 are such a joy. All active, Emily in Color Guard, Kennedy in Brownies and Soccer, William in Hockey and baseball, and Presley in being smart and cute!!
Bill and Kim are both busy working, Bill luckily from home and Kim at a Pain Clinic in Coon Rapids. Their children Katie 12, and Tommy 11 are also busy, Katie is now playing hockey along with her cousins and also ran cross-country quite successfully this fall. Tommy is active in cub scouts and plays soccer and baseball.
Annie and Doug have had a big change with Doug leaving Federal Cartridge to work for Jimbo. Annie is still teaching and coaching, and they both help with the girls’ sports. Nicole 13, Allie 11 and Matthew 3 keep mom and dad hopping. Nicole is playing hockey right now, but is also involved in soccer and a cross-country runner. Allie is also on the same hockey team as Colie and Katie and played soccer and softball this summer. Matthew is a real boy and into Cars and Trains and is just as cute as can be.
Jimbo and Ann, also haven’t let any grass grow under their feet. Jimbo and his partner have purchased their third Tires Plus. This one in Eau Claire, Wis. Their boys Jack 16, and Nick 12 are getting so old. Jack turned 16 a few weeks ago and got his drivers license that day. Nick was thrilled to be on the Coon Rapids National Little League team that went all the way to Indianapolis for the Midwest championship and played on ESPN in the final game only to lose to the Dakota’s. Jack plays baseball and football and Nick ran cross country this fall as well.
Grandma keeps busy trying to watch each of them participate in their chosen sports or activities. It’s hard to make them all, but I do my best. They are all smart and good looking, and I’m not saying that because I’m the grandma…they really are! My life is so blessed by them all.
Don’t forget the “reason for the season” and have a wonderful New Year.
Love and prayers, Mary

Happy16th Birthday Jack

and good luck on the test!!! Drive carefully, Love Grandma

Happy Thanksgiving Everyone!

I was in the midst of baking the buns for late last nite when my oven quit. I guess everything else will have to be in the microwave or on the stove. Thank God I have an electric roaster for the turkey. I don't know what I'll do for bread. What a dumb thing to happen. Hope your dinner turns out! and pray for mine. Mom where are you now? m

Greetings from Georgia

Hi, I'm in Athens, Georgia staying at the Schieber (Biltmore) Bed and Breakfast. Their cooking rivals the Switzerland Bed and Breakfast I stayed at in May, and also Kathleen's husband Gary's. Loving it here, they play a mean "Spinner" but I managed to beat them anyway once!!! I'll be in Destin, Florida on Wednesday evening at childhood friends Jim and Linda Zimmers. I hope they can compete with the family. Then on Friday I drive to New Orleans to stay at a time share with Bonnie Sass and Lois Bjerke, friends I worked with and have traveled with of late. See you soon. (Well those who live in MN) Love ya all!!! m

Ann Kiecker turns "40" and Doug Stalboerger "41"

We celebrated Ann and Doug's birthday's last nite....but Ann really has till Sunday to be 39. They share November 9th for their birthdays. Happy Birthday, I love you both. I wanted to get this posted before I left for my big trip. I leave this afternoon for Atlanta to visit Joe and Sandi for five days....then Jim and Linda in Destin Florida for a couple days...then I meet Bonnie Sass and Lois Bjerke, my traveling buddies in New Orleans for a week. I won't be home till November 21, so see all you family and friends then. Love ya, m

First Communion

Sunday, November 3, Thomas Karl Kiecker made his First Communion. Picture of Tommy with his family (Bill, Kim and Katie). Guess I didn't have my camera on the right setting....cause this is a little blurry....maybe someone can email me a better picture. m

Trick or Treat!

Jimbo has a halloween party each year for his nieces and nephews (no parents aloud)just grandma....and you must wear a costume! We watch "It's a Great Pumpkim Charlie Brown" and eat and just have fun. Of course the evening ends with pumpkin pie!!! Thanks Jimbo a great time was had by all!! Happy Halloween everyone! m

As You See, I'm Doing Great

Good Friends, Good Food and Lots of Laughs is aiding in my recovery! I have had several dinners out in the last few months, joining with many old friends and some new ones too. The doctors can't find anything wrong with my health and have even removed two medications from my list. I'm down to two and one is for allergies....so I am happy about that.
We closed the cabin last week, which was sad, but I'm sure the winter will fly by with travel, more dinners, much more laughter and my great family...and I'll be back at the lake enjoying life. Thanks to all who have joined in my healing. Love ya all, m

HAPPY BIRTHDAY WILLIAM!!!

William is 6 today! Hurrah!!! Hugs and Kisses from Grandma

MY BABY is 40 Happy Birthday JIMBO

Love you so much, and thank you for all you have done for me this last year! mom

Happy Birthday Matthew!

Matthew is 3 today! Hip Hip Hurrah!!!

I'm PERFECT!!!

Hi, been a while since I wrote about my personal life....so I just thought I'd let you know that I went to see my surgeon today, and he said I was "Perfect". I have been feeling good, and feel stronger all the time. I have an appointment to see the surgeon who did my surgery 12 years ago next week, and I expect he also will tell me that all is well...But it is really nice to hear every now and then that you are perfect. I guess I have been spending too much time with my sister....she is the perfect one. Sorry Kathleen, but I just couldn't help it!! Love you all and thank you for your continued thoughts and prayers and I know I am only perfect because of all of you. m

Happy 17th Anniversary Jimbo and Ann

Hope you have a great year just like the last 17. Love ya lots, mom

Happy Birthday Nicole

Oh my gosh....a teenager!!!
Colie Rose is 13!!!

I couldn't find one good picture of Nicole by herself....so I had to put three pictures in the blog. Katie one of her cousins and Matthew her little brother share the limelight. Happy Birthday Nicole...Love ya lots, Grandma K

Happy Anniversary Bill and Kim (14 years?)

Hope you have a happy day and that it continues all year long! Love ya, mom

Happy Birthday Tommy

Tommy on right


Tommy Kiecker is 11 today September 3, 2008 Happy Birthday, Love Grandma

First Day of School

Just a reminder....that I'm retired and getting old! Ann sent pictures of Jack and Nick this morning as she has taken pictures of the boys the first day each year since they started school. Jack is in 10th grade and Nick in 7th. Nicole and Katie also are in 7th grade....Emily in 9th or HIGH SCHOOL, Allie in 6th grade or Middle School.....Tommy who just celebrated his 11th birthday at the cabin (but it's really tomorrow) is in 5th, Kennedy in 3rd, William is just starting Kindergarten....boy Matthew had to go back to day care as Annie went back to teaching, and Presley is stuck there too! I got to sleep in...which I did till 8:15.
I am feeling great and looking forward to Fall...which is right around the corner! m