Nothing to do but Wrap!!

Well....I guess I didn't do any laundry yesterday either.  But I was really a busy lady.  I left home at 9:15 a.m. and took Aunt Loretta to the airport, stopped at Home Depot, Victoria Secret, PacSun, the Post Office, HealthPartners pharmacy, Cub and McDonalds and was back home at Noon.  But I have all my Christmas shopping done.  Early in the afternoon, I got a call from my sister Kathleen, wondering if Loretta got her clothes?  I was really confused, cause I got her suitcase and walker out and checked them right at the curb and got Loretta a wheelchair and she was all on her way when I drove away....but evidently she shortly realized that I had her carryon bag with all her meds etc. still in the backseat of my car,  So once I realized that I went out and retrieved it and emptied all the stuff into a box and ran to the Post Office.  I guess Pandora has already made arrangements with the pharmacy to get her enough pills to last her till the box gets there,...atleast I hope so!

So that is why I didn't get anything else accomplished yesterday, I was all warn out after that!  But I was really happy that I was able to make it all the way to the airport and back without too much problem with my butt.  I think all the shopping after wasn't too smart....but my butt didn't complain too much!

I'll be wrapping presents for a few days now, and I'll set up shop in the basement so I can do the laundry at the same time.  It'll work great.   I did work on my Christmas letter while I was resting my butt last night, so it looks like I may get it out before Christmas....things are looking up.

I've included a picture of Loretta in front of a snowbank....she wanted to show it off to all her friends in California.  Hope you enjoy it.  I miss her already!  But she did call and give me a bad time about the suitcase last night after they finally let the plane land.  Evidently the bad weather is following her...,it was raining so hard they circled for about an hour before landing.  It's supposed to rain all weekend...they are talking about 5 inches by Sunday evening.  I'm sure the snow was her fault too!

Love and prayers to all, m

Loretta's Leaving Today!

Hope she has a good trip home.  But we talked to Michael last night, and he said they were predicting 5 inches of rain by Sunday, so the weather isn't going to be much better there.....well it will be warmer....just a different kind of precipitation.

I will be taking her to the airport in an hour, then I have some errands like going to the post office to mail Kathleen's present....have a prescription to pickup....just a regular refill of my cholesterol med....and then I have a couple of gift certificates to pickup and I'll be done shopping.  I also have a pile of laundry to do...but I have all weekend to do that....while I'm wrapping presents.  Yikes Christmas is next week.

Sharyl and Donny Boes have agreed to drive me to Mayo on Tuesday.....Thank YOU, THANK YOU.  This will be their third trip with me.  Way above the call of duty.  But great neighbors.  They leave next week for Arizona, so I'll lose their generosity for the winter.,  Luckily I have a few other neighbors who stick around and help me out with snowblowing etc.

Last night I slept much better.  My neck didn't bother me till about 4 a.m. when I got up for medicine, and then I was sleeping sound when Loretta knocked on my door at 8 a.m.  Now I have to get dressed and off to the airport.  Driving to Janet's yesterday 35 minutes I did fine....I'm hoping the same for this trip.

Loved the mini Cousins Christmas....after all the cancellations this weekend, we actually got 8 of the 30 or more who planned on being there on Saturday, together.,  Annies pizsa was to die for like we knew!!! Loretta got to see her granddaughter Kim and her husband Tom, and a good time was had by all.

Well I better get dressed and get moving here.  Lots to do.  Love and prayers, m

Wisconsin is Calling!

Well not literally, but today we finally get to go to Annie's restaurant in Colfax.  Snow is not going to stop us today.  We in the northern suburbs and Wisconsin didn't get any of that new white fluffy stuff....however, Judy in Shakopee  and points South and West got a few inches.  Judy and I are meeting at Janet and Randy's place, and Judy will leave her car there and take over driving for me.  Janet may join us, but don't know that for sure.  John and Flo will bring Loretta up from Portage, and Kim Weimer (Loretta's granddaughter) will come from Menomonee, and we will all have lunch at Annie's.  A mini Cousin's Christmas.  Finally!!!

My butt is feeling pretty good this morning, I was able to pull out the gauze packing without any pain or problems.  Hopefully the trip to Janet's will go well too.  My biggest problem lately has been my neck....it continues to be a problem for sleeping, and I'm considering seeing a chiropractor.  It's so strange cause laying in the back of the van on our way down to Mayo didn't bother me at all, but as soon as I went to bed the pinched nerve starts to act up, and I can't find an angle to lay my head without pain.  I've started getting up during the night and taking more ibuprofen and then in a few hours tylenol....so when I fall to sleep it's only for a few hours, and then I'm tossing around trying to find a spot that doesn't make it hurt.  It puts my arm to sleep or feels like it is starting to. Don't know what to do!

Still looking for a ride to Mayo on the 21st. of Dec.....next Tuesday.  Rita Culshaw wrote and said she couldn't....she has two Christmas parties....afraid that is par for the course the week before Christmas.  Hope someone out there can help.  Judy leaves to go back to California along with Loretta on Friday.  She has proven to be a great driver....and caretaker for me.  Thank you, Thank you, Judy.  I hope not to have to repay you in the same manner.  Stay healthy and well.

Of to see the wizard....we'll follow the yellow brick road or I94.  Love and prayers, m

 

Off to Mayo Once Again

I don't have time to write much, but I will come home and update you all on my visit.  Judy and I are about to drive down....need to jump in the shower and get dressed.  See you later.  m

I'm home, we made a mad dash home, as they were predicting snow again, and Judy had to drive back to Shakopee once she got me home.  But so far so good....no snow yet.

My appointment went well, cept the doctor was much more aggresive with her procedure of scraping it out and cauterizing it.  She did it once and then packed it with gauze for 10 minutes or so, and then came back and did it over again and then really packed it deep and told me to leave the packing in place for 24 hours.  Put some more gauze on the outside, and sent me on my way....only to have to return next Tuesday, Dec. 21.  Any volunteers for driving?  Judy won't be here and Janet is already taking me down on Jan. 4 and 5 when I have to return for CTscan as well as have my butt looked at.  What a pain this is going down every week or so.

Had a very nice evening last night.  First went shopping, then met the FF ladies and had a cup of coffee with them.  Then headed for Greenhaven and the North Suburban Women's Club Christmas party.  So nice to see those who I've not seen since last Christmas.  Don't think I made one meeting after that, and this was the first for this year.  Hope to join them next month for a play at Lyric Arts in Anoka.

When I got home, Judy was already here making herself at home.  We watched the final of the Biggest Loser, and then hit the beds so we could get up early this morning and head to Rochester for a 10:15 appointment.  So now I'll take it easy for the rest of the afternoon, and rest up for our trip to Colfax tomorrow to pickup Aunt Loretta.  We are meeting them at Annie's restuarant (spot the Christmas Party was supposed to be held) and having lunch with Kim Weimer (Loretta's granddaughter).  Should be a great day....as long as we don't get too much snow tonight.  So far the sun is still shining.  Hope you are having a great day, Love and prayers, m

Forgotten Blog!

I got up late this morning, the first morning alone for a few days, so I took advantage of it.  I then got right to work on the computer and telephone, making arrangements for Judy and my trip to Mayo tomorrow, and then our trip to Wisconsin on Thursday to pick up Loretta.  I got that all arranged and went onto ordering prescription refill and paying some bills, eating lunch, and finally got a email from Judy asking if I'd forgotten the blog, and OMG I had!!

I have a Christmas party this evening with the North Suburban Women's Club, but first have to do some shopping and also meet with my "Frist Friday" friends. I double booked myself for the evening, but FF group meets at 5:30 at Riverdale restuarant, and the other is at 6:30 at Greenhaven Country Club only about another 3 miles down the road.  So I'll do some shopping at Riverdale, have a drink with the FF group and then go on to the Women's Club party. 

Then when I get home, Judy is coming and spending the night with me, as she is driving me down to Mayo in the morning, and we have to leave at 8 a.m....so we figured rather than get up super early and having her drive up here in the morning, it would work better this way.  Then on Thursday we will meet in Richfield at Janets (maybe she will come along) and drive to Annie's restuarant in Colfax to pickup Loretta.  John and Flo have to drive up to Annie's anyway, so we luck out and don't have to drive as far....plus we get to have lunch at Annies....where we were supposed to have that Cousin's Christmas during the storm last weekend.  We have invited Kim Weimer, Loretta's granddaughter who lives near Colfax, to meet us for lunch too. Loretta will get to see her too!  So things are working out pretty well for Loretta.  She has gotten to see a lot of the relatives disspite the weather.

That's my day in a nutshell.  Hope you are having a great day, the sun is shining!!!  Love and prayers, m

Bright and Brisk

The sun is shining brightly, but it's 6 below zero this morning.  Unfortunately, both Loretta and I have to go out into it.  Lucky for Loretta, Judy and Janet are picking her up in a warm car and taking her to meet John and Flo in Osseo, WI at a restaurant called the Norski Nook.  I hear they make good pie there.  I on the other hand have a funeral to go to this morning, and a hair appointment this afternoon.

Yesterday, we had a very enjoyable day.  Judy and Rita came to visit and helped eat the poppy strudel. I'm sending the rest to Wisconsin with Loretta.  Have to get it out of the house before I eat it all myself. Phil and Jason say they will be eating egg salad sandwiches all week.  He had made two and a half dozen deviled eggs to the cancelled party. 

Jimbo and Jack stopped over yesterday morning to get my snowblower that Donny (neighbor) had already came and got earlier.  I guess Donny told Jimbo that he was about to ask me if he could buy it....but Jimbo said he beat him to it.  Both of them had snowblowers that had died earlier in the day.  I did manage to get Donny and Sharyl to eat some of my poppy strudel and made Jimbo and Jack at least taste it.  They ate their little bite size piece....and said it tasted okay.  Donny however said it was wonderful.

Well, I must get some makeup on and get ready for the day.  Going to be a busy week.  Love and prayers, m

Happy Birthday Cousin Karen

Your mom wanted me to please wish you a Happy Birthday for her too!

Well the party got cancelled once again!!! Seems like that is the theme for this Christmas!!  But Loretta and I are doing fine.  I got an email from Phil, and he says "Bet you can't guess what Jason and I are having for lunch this week?"  I can guess! Deviled Eggs, Loretta and I are having Poppy Strudel.  But I've already been able to give a plate of it to the neighbors, now we only have 1 1/.2 pans of it left....anyone interested in helping us eat it....or see Aunt Loretta is welcome to visit this afternoon.  That is if you can get out of your driveway....or street.  I happen to have mine all freshly shoveled and the street is already plowed.....Come and get it!!! 

So far we're still in our pj's watching the Hallmark channel.  Don't have plans for much else.  Read the paper and maybe watch the Vikings?  or was that cancelled too?  I remember hearing something about that on the news last night.  But at least I can watch my fantasy football scores.  I think I play Tommy this week. 

Think I will get dressed tomorrow....I have a funeral and a hair appointment.  We also have to figure out how to get Aunt Loretta to visit her brother John and Flo.  Right now I94 the interstate is closed from Hudson to Tomah....so we couldn't get their if we wanted.  John has already called, and he says it's still snowing in Portage.  Should be a busy week....I don't think they will cancel that! 

Check out the pictures I added last night....we got more snow after I took those.  Love and prayers, m

Jack and Grandma on his 18th Birthday and snow pictures

2010 Christmas Tree

Snowy driveway

Patrio table set with snow

These were 3 trees decorated with lights about 18 inches tall.

Snow and icicles handing off the roof.

Let it Snow, Let it Snow, Let it Snow!

Oh, the weather outside is frightful, but the fire is so delightful.....well it would be if I had a fireplace....the furnace seems to be a good substitute.  The snow is coming down just like they predicted, and this morning they have predicted that we on the North side of town are going to get the largest numbers of snow.

When I got up around 8 a.m., I walked out to see Loretta sleeping on the couch with the TV blarring....I hope she hasn't been there long, but 45 minutes later she is still sleeping.  She found my spot and blanket works well.  We can't go anywhere anyway!

I've developed a crick in my neck....from laying and proping my self up with that left arm.....must be pinching something.....thought sleeping would help....but it's still there this morning.  You'd think with all the ibuprofen and tylenol I'm taking, it would help.....not so.

I think Loretta and I will bake, wrap presents and stuff like that today....not going to be making any snow angels,  I guess she'll talk me into some more Yatzee....even though she beat me another 5 out of 6 games yesterday.  I did manage to win one BIG.  I got 3 Yatzee's in one game....however, she managed to win all the others.  I couldn't spread the points around.

It actually does look beautiful outside, and I have seen a few cars moving on Foley Blvd. (the main thoroughfare at my corner).  So all is well on the home front!  Love and prayers, stay warm and dry!  m

The Calm Before the Storm

Sorry I'm late.....slept late.....I guess I'm not that late writing, just late sleeping!!!!  Felt good.  The sun is trying to come out, and it is only in the teens but should be in the 20's today, and then tonight the storm comes....they are predicting 6 - 9 inches here and even worse in Wisconsin.....12+ inches.  Loretta says we didn't need to get this much for her visit.  We've had to postpone the Cousin's Christmas Party in Wisconsin.  We moved it from Sat. to Sunday.  Hopefully the road will be clear and dry by then.

We didn't do much after going to the brunch yesterday morning.  Funny story about that:  Last month I went for the first time, and they have a basket that they collect the names of all the first timers, and then draw one out and give them a ticket for the next months brunch....Last month I won.....this month they drew out Loretta's name, but we told them that she was from CA and wouldn't be here next month.....so they drew another name.  Unfortunately she couldn't do the same kind of luck with the weather.

I need to go back to Mayo again next Wednesday, and am in need for a driver again.  Rita Culshaw had volunteered last time I asked, but I already had a driver....she can't do it this month, she already had a party planned for that morning.  That seasonal party thing is hard to get around at this time of the year.  But if anyone is available, you can use my van....then I can lay in back.....I'd really appreciate it.

Today I get a visit from the Avon lady, and also have to pick up a few provisions so Loretta and I have something to eat when we are snowed in tomorrow.  Nothing else....just a quite day all around.  I suppose Loretta and I will get a few rounds of Yatzee in.....yesterday she beat me 4 out of 5 games.  Why am I such a loser?  Even Matthew, the Master, beats me!  Oh Well, I win at a lot of other things in life.  Love and prayers, m

Great Day in the Morning!

No sun....but I have Loretta gracing my home.  We are off to a brunch and will come back and write before noon.  See you then...love and prayers, m

We're home.....had a great brunch and heard some beautiful Christmas music and a beautiful story from a story teller.  Was good food too!

Loretta was really surprised last nite when Judy met her at her gate as she got off the plane.....Judy's plane had come in earlier and she waited inside the security area for only passengers till Loretta's plane arrived....she made sure they got her a wheelchair and went with her all the way to baggage.  Then Janet came and picked them up and brought them to my house.  I had a Colo-rectal Support Group Christmas Party at 5:30, and beat them home by about 5 minutes.  I had dinner ready for them, and we all sat and visited while they ate.  During that time, Elaine and Michael both called to make sure she was okay.  We were happy to reply that she was just fine and having a great time.  She is amazed at all the white outside...but not thrilled with the cold that goes with it.  Janet borrowed her a pair of warm boots that I made her put on this morning, and I warmed up the car before we got in....so all went well.

No more excitement for the day.....tomorrow we may bake a coffee cake to take along on Saturday.  It's supposed to be snowing everyday for the next three days, so the trip to Wisconsin should be fun.  My butt seems to be weathering all this partying so far.....I'm sure it will continue to heal....even though so much more slowly then I'd hoped.  All is well.  Love ya all, m

Loretta Arrives Today!

and hopefully she will bring some warm weather....although it doesn't seem likely that even the amount she can stuff in her suitcase will help us in the frozen north.  But the sun is shinning and they are planning a slight warm up....must be what Loretta has in her suitcase.

I almost forgot....after St. Nick and St. Ambrose is a Holy day of obligation....Sandi Schieber's birthday!!!  Love ya Sandi...Happy Birthday.

I finished decorating the tree and did some cleaning and laundry yesterday, all before going to card club last night, and I really felt well and not so sore as I was last week.  I really think the antibiotics are working!

Today I have some shopping to do and a little tweeking of the house so I'm ready for the company this evening.  Before they arrive, I have another Christmas party to attend.  My colo-rectal cancer support group.  This one requires a white elephant, and I'm having a hard time deciding which one to wrap.

Last night at Card Club, we had real presents, we each bring 7 little gifts (about a dollar each) and then a bigger one ($10-15) to exchange.  Everyone comes up with cleaver small items and last night was no exception.  I came home with a bag full of wonderful things.  Thank you to all of you.  I know you are reading this.  I also will go searching for the ribbon that Twylla claims they don't make anymore,,,,,there has to be someone making it.  She crocheted us each a necklace out of it, and I'd love to duplicate it....so I will hunt high and low.

Well must get started on this day!  It looks like it will be a good one.  Love and prayers, m

P.S. John the evangelist says, "God is love." Abide in love, live it, and you abide and live in God.   I feel a whole lot of it coming my way!

Happy Feast of St. Ambrose!

How many Ambrose's do you know?  I bet I know more....Grandpa Amby, my brother William Ambrose, my son William Ambrose, my grandson Jack Ambrose and Gary (my brother-in-law) Couillard's dad Ambrose.  Hope I didn't miss any.  Anyway it was always another day for my dad to celebrate....but he really didn't need an excuse to celebrate.

I went to lunch yesterday with the retiree's....don't think there was any wannabee's there...but a large group of us showed up.  Great catching up on everyone.  I did a little shopping on my way home, and then Bonnie showed up to discuss our trip to Florida.  I think we will be leaving about the 24th of January, and slowly working our way from house to house.  Going to stop at Tom and Karen's the first night, hotel the next, Joe and Sandi's for a couple, Linda and Jim's for a couple, timeshare a couple, hopefully Jim Gendreaus for a few, timeshare another couple and then head back home.  So we're firming it up pretty well.  Got lots of people we can visit along the way.

Last night I started puttingh the tinsel on my tree.....it's starting to look pretty good....my hope is to finish it today. Then I have to wrap some gifts for tonights Card Club party.  Four of us were at lunch yesterday, or half of the club is retired....actually only two of the eight are still working.....young things.

I'm not sure why, but my butt felt so much better yesterday, don't know if it is the antibiotics taking hold.....or maybe the extra Tylenol.....or the Dreft bath I took the night before.  Whatever it was....I hope it continues.

Just got interrupted by a call from Uncle John and Flo...making last minute details for the Cousins Christmas next Saturday.  Aunt Loretta arrives tomorrow and she will be staying with them from Saturday til the following Thursday.  So lots of fun and excitement this week.  I have a Christmas party everyday cept Friday this week.  Next week isn't much better.....so the fun begins.  Hope you all have a great day, love and prayers, m

Happy St. Nicholas Day!

When I was working, I used to place bags of chocolate coins on the desks of co-workers (who were mostly women) on this day, and give them a little story about St. Nicholas and how he saved a widowers daughters from prostitution by secretly leaving them a bag of gold coins.  Yesterday as I was putting out my Christmas decorations I found a Holy card and it had an image of St. Nick and on the back was this poem:

St. Nicholas, holy patron of children

saintly and generous bishop,

inspire us to give gifts

of ourselves and our time.

Give us your blessing 

so that we might fill with sincerity

each greeting we speak and send.

Smiling saint of sweets and toys

help us stay youthful and mirthful,

playful and joyful so that we can celebrate 

every day as Christmas.

Patron Saint of generosity,

arounse us to an evergreen extravagance

in loving and in giving gifts

to those we love and to the poor.

Paran of the un-thanked,

who always slips away

before you can be thanked

incite us to be like you.

"Spirit of Christmas" poem by Edward Hays.

I really loved it and had to share with all of you.  Hope all of you were good and St. Nick was good to you.

Yesterday, Bill, Kim, Katie and Tommy, came to help me finish up on the decorating.  Grandma's halls are pretty well decked now.  I still have to put tinsel on the tree, but that is a job only I can do....I've never taught anyone else how to put it on.  I'm kinda anal in that matter (if I can be that without one..hehe). The house looks and smells really nice.

My Vikings did win yesterday, but I'm afraid my fantasy football team won't do the same.  I'm ahead right now, but Katie has 2 players left to play this evening, and I'm sure they will score enough points to beat me.  I'm only ahead by 3 points.

I'm going to lunch today with the retiree's and wannabees.  So should get to see a few I haven't seen for awhile.  I also got a call from Bonnie Sass this morning, and she is coming to start making some more plans for our trip to Florida in January.

Time to get ready......talk to you tomorrow....Love and prayers, m 

Eve of St. Nicholas

Don't know about your family, but St. Nick is alive and well in our family and he's packing his bags to deliver this evening.  So you better be good!

Ann and Jimbo, Annie and Allie, Jack, Nick and Matthew all came yesterday to help Deck Grandma's Halls, but I still have lots to do.  Got both of the trees up and partially decorated, but none of my snowmen are displayed and lots of Angels are waiting to see the light of day.  By 2 p.m. all cept Matthew were gone.

Matthew spent the afternoon with me, and I spent most of the time on the couch for the rest of the day.  I'm always a little more wiped out the day after my trips to Rochester.  My butt is still aching, but I manage to get around pretty well.  It's still the sitting that is a problem.  I'm afraid this may go on for a while.  It is pretty slow to heal.

I got up and went to church this morning, no oversleeping this week!  So I'm off to a good start for the day.  Now lets hope the Vikings and my Fantasy Football team do well too!  Love and prayers, m

Snowy Snowy Day!

Wow....Aunt Loretta is really going to be greeted with a lot of snow.  We got about 7 or 8 inches, but the SW suburbs got 10 inches.  It really is beautiful.  I awoke to the sound of a snowblower blowing out my drive-way.  The neighbor who drove me to Rochester yesterday, along with his wife, was blowing it out.  No his wife wasn't helping with the drive-way, she road along to Rochester with me yesterday.

I have been in the habit of paying for the parking and treating my hosts to lunch, but Donny grabbed the bill yesterday and said it was my Christmas present.....now I wonder what the drive-way was.  I am so lucky to have such wonderful neighbors taking care of me.

The kids are coming to help me decorate and put up my two Christmas trees.  I am baking cookies as a treat for them this morning.  I have hot chocolate and apple cider too.  I'm looking forward to the day.  My butt seems to be better this morning, but I have gone back to taking Tylenol and of course I just got out of bed....so I've been off it for 9 hours.

If you didn't read my update you may want to read that .....I just added it to the first entry for yesterday.  I updated it really late.....and I forgot to call Aunt Loretta, so will have to do that this morning as well.  Love and prayers to you all, m

Off to Mayo Once Again

No time to write a long blog....if you want to check back later I'll report on my day when I get home.  Another storm in coming,.,,so we will try to outrun it.  It is supposed to start snowing in the cities this afternoon, but we are headed south so who knows what we'll run into.  Donny isn't afraid of anything....so off we go. Love, m

I'm home!  Actually got home before the snow started and had to run to HealthPartners to fill a prescription for antibiotics I got at Mayo this morning, and then I went to fill my tank with gas...with the thought of beating the snow, but it started while I was getting the prescription filled. They are predicting about 5 or 6 inches this time. Then I got home and made dinner and played on the computer and answered some emails.  Judy wrote and asked if I was okay, and I promised her I would hurry up and finally post this.

I complained to the doctor that I thought my pain in the butt was worse and that the drainage was a different consistency than the clear liquid it had been.  I also had excuses for the soreness...I had been more active and sitting up a lot more than usual....and I also stopped taking Tylenol a few weeks ago so maybe that was the reason.  The doctor didn't think it looked any redder than it had 10 days ago, and thought it might be a bit smaller, but decided to be safe and put me back on antibiotics for another 10 days.  She also said I might want to start taking the Tylenol again.  Then cleaned it and coated it with silver nitrate again....packed me with gauze and sent me on my way.  I have to go back again in 11 days and I'm sure she will repeat the process again.  So I still have a "Pain in the Butt" but at least I'm not a pain in the butt.  So that's my story and I'm sticking to it.  Thanks for coming back and reading!  Love and prayers, m

The Sun is Shining for Jack's 18th Birthday

Wow....I have an 18 year old grandson today!!!  And a great one at that!  Happy Birthday Jack!

Tonight they are celebrating by going to the Hollidazzle Parade downtown.  Then following with pizza at Pizza Flame like when he was little.  But knowing how my neuropothy is so much worse in the cold....I think I may just do the Pizza Flame part.  I still have the numbness in my fingers and feet which is emphasized by the cold.  It came from the chemo I had last spring, and I actually have to wait till the nerves grow back to make it go away.  I can't imagine standing outside in the cold for an hour.

I got my groceries yesterday and finished picking up Jack's gift.  But other than that, I didn't accomplish much....a nap...made a hotdish from leftovers and some hamburger...wrapped his present...and that's about it.  Did manage to get the 2 days mail....picked up Tuesdays on my way to the grocery store, and then on my way back I got Wednesdays mail.  I did get one of the packages I ordered online last Saturday....so that is pretty quick.  The other item I ordered I was after the fact notified is on back order.....so who knows when that will come. Ironically it is for Will....who got his birthday present late as well.

Nothing much planned for the daylight hours today....and tomorrow I head back to Mayo to have my butt looked at.  I don't really feel like it is getting any better.  I'll see what they say.....I think I'll just see the surgeon's assistant so I don't know if she'll do anything either.  Keep those prayers coming, m

Promise of a Better Day!

But I have yet to see the sun.  It is cold and breezy out there....but I'll venture out today to buy groceries....it's becoming a necessity.

I sat a lot yesterday, and by the time I went to bed last night my butt was really aching....so I need to stay off it as much as I can today.  Shopping should help.  I never even got dressed yesterday, the neighbor, Donny Boes, blew out my drive-way....and his wife Sharyl called around 5 p.m. and asked if I'd eaten yet....I said no, and so she came over with a container of warm turkey rice soup she had made.  While she was here I scarfed it down.  As I wasn't dressed I haven't picked up the mail yet either.  But I'll get it as I drive by on my way to the grocery store.  I did get some things done yesterday, like the laundry, washed, folded and put away.  I brought out my Christmas table cloth and runner and put that on too.

It was such a good idea that I cancelled my appointment for yesterday....on the news they said that Coon Rapids/Anoka area of the Metro got the worst of the snow and ice.  We had several accidents on Hwy 10 which is what we needed to take all the way into downtown St. Paul.  Thank You God for making that good decision.  As I was just typing this, the Chevy commercial came on that is singing "You are my Sunshine".  I'm sure that must be a sign that he is watching me.

Nothing exciting or new, so I guess I better get in the shower and start moving.  Love and prayers, m

Snowy Snowy Day!

So glad I made the decision not to go to Rochester this morning.  They may not have gotten hit as bad there, but getting from one end of the cities to the other would have been a nightmare.  Many schools are closed or delayed 2 hours all over the state.  Anyway, I've rescheduled for Friday, and will have the Boes' drive me down. I have been so blessed to have so many people give of their time and gas to drive me down each time.  Thank you to all my drivers.

Yesterday I went to my oncologist who over saw all my chemo last spring, and actually has been my oncologist since I was originally diagnosed with colo-rectal cancer.  He also agreed that I should have my next CTscan scheduled for Jan. 5 at the Mayo, and then in April have it at HHH in Robinsdale.  So hopefully my days of traveling to Rochester will then be over for a long time.

I think after about 25 emails back and forth and changing the date several times, we have finally settled on a maybe possible (for Tom, Karen and family) date.  So, as I can't imagine Christmas without my whole family and all the grandkids....I need your prayers to make that maybe possible date to be for sure.  Of course as I believe in the possible in all things (the polyanna in me) I also believe in the power of prayer.  Plus if they want their presents they have to come and get them....or wait till the end of January when I stop on my way south.  I'm planning a trip to Florida with my friend Bonnie the end of January and beginning of February.

Today I need to do laundry...been putting that off for a week now.  But it will still be 3 loads....just a little fuller loads than normal.  Other than that.....as it is still snowing....I probably won't do anything.  Maybe get a few Christmas projects done.  Like getting a Christmas letter started.  Do you believe I got my first Christmas card a week before Thanksgiving.  I'm not mentioning any names....but some people need to get a life. ha ha!  Even being retired I can't imagine getting my cards out that early.  Of course some people are not running to Rochester and 3 other doctors all the time.

Planning a Deck the Halls Party all weekend.  Have invited my kids and grandkids to come and help decorate and put up the trees with me.  Need help with the heavy lifting etc.  Besides I think it will be so fun.  I'm serving apple cider, Hot Chocolate and cookies for the helpers.  I've already got an RSVP from Katie and Tommy.....early this morning before I was even out of bed.  Their mom is at work really early....so I imagine she sent it.

Well, I guess that's enough rambling from me.....Love and prayers, m

Another Cloudy Day....waiting for the Storm

Well I don't think it is exactly a storm....but rain and snow.  I have an appointment down in Rochester tomorrow morning, and I am wrestling with the thought of cancelling.  We would need to leave at 8 or earlier....during rush hour....and if it is icy, snowing and blowing....I don't want my neighbors (the Boes) to have to drive in that.  I need to call and see what they think.  I'd like to cancel today rather than in the morning.  I'll have to give them a call and discuss.

I talked to Loretta yesterday and her brother Uncle John as well.  I think we are all set with the plans for her visit.  She will stay with me Wednesday thru Saturday and then go home with John and Flo from the CC Christmas party in Wisconsin.  Then the following Thursday I will meet them in Black River Falls, and bring her back to my house for the evening, and take her to the airport on Friday.  Lots of cousins are coming to the party and I'm really looking forward to it.

Well, I guess I better get dressed....I have an appointment to see my local oncologist today....then need to do some quick shopping before the rain hits.  Love and prayers, m

Sunny Sonday!

Not only is it sunny but warming up!  Unfortunately I over-slept this morning, and missed church.....hope God knows I needed the rest.....actually I'm sure he did, and that's why I slept so well.

I had a fairly busy day yesterday.  I did some cleaning (those dishes) and then went shopping, hitting five stores...but didn't find what I was looking for at two.  Then I went to Nicole's hockey game at 5:30 (they won 8-0) and then I took Matthew home with me....so he didn't have to stay and watch another hockey game that started at 8:00 p.m.  He didn't get picked up till after 11, and then I took a hot bath to soak my butt.  I don't think I hit the bed till almost midnite.  That's why I slept so late this morning.

Today I again need to do some shopping, but I also want to see Allie play hockey.  Then I also want to do some decorating of the flower boxes outside.  It's supposed to be near 40 this afternoon, and I need to take advantage of that!  I have doctor appointments the next two days, so I need to get as much done today as I can....at least in the weather department.

Spoke to a woman at the hockey game last night who also has been fighting colo-rectal cancer....and she told me she is also in remission  at this time.  Hoorah for that!!!  God is Good....God is Great.  Hope you have a good SONday.  Love and prayers, m

Warming Up!

The sun is shinning brightly, and the temps are warming back up this weekend.  I should get a lot of things done today.  I jumped out of bed just before 8 a.m. remembering that I hadn't put out the garbage cans last nite, so I bundled up and took out the cans and picked up the mail I hadn't picked up since Tuesday when Bill brought it in for me.  I just forgot about it on Wednesday and Friday....as I was shopping yesterday.  After coming back in, I made my oatmeal and coffee and went to the computer to check my emails and play some spider solitaire, and I just realized I never took my meds or wrote my blog.  So even though I was up and moving, I wasn't awake....really!

I did shop...but not till I dropped yesterday.  I got home around 5 and then sorted and recorded what I already had, and assessed what I needed to buy next.  So I will be out shopping again today.  Later in the evening, Annie called and asked if Matthew could come and play while they watched a hockey game....when she arrived, a friend Gracie was with Matthew, as she didn't want to watch her sister play hockey anymore either.  So I played with the two of them till about 11 p.m. or so.  I was really ready for bed by then.

Got the itinerary for Aunt Loretta today, so I will be picking her up and bringing her to my house till the CC Christmas party, then I think she is going home with Uncle John and Flo for the rest of the week, and then she will return later in the week and I will take her to the airport.  Need to call John and coordinate that.  I think Loretta, Janet and Judy and maybe Debbie will all drive with me to the party....so sounds like fun already.

Well I must get moving....enough of this lounging around.....still have dishes to wash from Thanksgiving....most are done, but need to scrub some kettles I can't fit in the dishwasher.  My butt is doing fine....still draining....but fine.  Love and prayers, m

Happy Thanksgiving!

And what a happy sunny day it is.  I'm sorry I'm so late in writing this morning, but it's not that I was dilly dallying around.  I've peeled 10 lbs of potatoes, made my stuffing and finished cleaning....last minute sweeping and vacuuming.  I really feel good about all I've accomplished.  All cause it was done standing up. 

After writing my blog, I will shower and get dressed and run into town to Gene's neices for a couple hours visit....the Kiecker family will be gathering there....and then come home and finish cooking dinner.  The family is arriving at 5 for dinner.  Annie said something about coming early so she can put her sweet potatoes in the oven.  They were going to St. Cloud for a noon dinner with the Stalboergers.  After dinner we will skyp Tom and Karen and family in Chicago.  Can't wait.  It'll seem like they are here.

After all that, we will make plans for shopping tomorrow.  I've opted out of the really early morning stuff, and will just go along to the Mall of America where we shop and have lunch to celebrate Carrie Schoenecker Effertz birthday.  That's tradition since the Mall opened.  Before that, we'd go downtown to Dayton's and see Santa, shop and have lunch with mom...so a long long tradition.

Hope you all have a happy day and give thanks for all our blessings.  I know I've got a lot to be thankful for this year and I am also thankful for the health of all my family and friends.  Love and prayers, m

Another Cloudy Day....waiting for the Storm

I need to shower and get on the move this morning to do some quick shopping before the ice comes back.  Then I'll be home cleaning this evening. 

Yesterday was a pretty quiet day....never even got dressed.  Kinda normal day after being at Mayo don't know if it's the check up itself or the ride for 4 hours in the car that knocks me out the next day.  But anyway, when my son Bill stopped by around 7 p.m. he saw the newspaper wasn't taken in, so he immediately went to the mailbox and got my mail as well.  It wasn't that I forgot about them, I just didn't want to get dressed and go out in the cold and get it.  Lazy is what the call it.  I knew he was coming, so I knew I could ask him to get them for me, but he surprised me by walking in the door with it in hand.  I did get some work done though....I dug out all the dishes needed for tomorrows dinner and set one of the tables.  Forgot to have Bill bring up a table from the basement for me.  I'll have to have the first to arrive tomorrow do that for me. 

The butt is still draining like usual.  Not a lot of pain....just discomfort.  I'm not taking any tylenol....just using ibuprofen.  Well, got to get into the shower and get moving today.  Lots more work to do.  Love you all, have a happy day.  m

Sunny Sunny Day Hurrah!

I managed to stay in bed till 8:30 this morning.....but then I realized the sun was shining and it made me so happy.  After not seeing it for days.....you really appreciate it!!

My butt is less sore this morning after yesterdays proceedure.  Funny I couldn't feel it when they were doing it....I actually had to ask what they did.....almost sorry I did.  It continued to bleed throughout the evening, but going to bed helped it to subside, this morning it doesn't seem to be bleeding....back to it's clear liquid discharge.  Okay enough of that yukky talk.  It really is better.

Got to start getting ready for Thanksgiving....I did remember to move the turkey from the freezer to the fridge.  I need to take down the Halloween decorations and maybe start digging out the dishes and serving pieces I'll need for Thursday.  I'll wait and do deep cleaning tomorrow.  I have to run to Costco tomorrow morning and pick up a few things, so I'm hoping the storm they are predicting doesn't come till later in the day.  I'm also worrying about traveling to South Mpls to Gene's neices for a few hours mid-day on Thanksgiving.....if the weather is too bad, I may not venture out.  So I'll keep an eye on that....it's way to early to be making those decisions.

Nothing else to report....a big thank you to Bonnie and Bob who drove me to Rochester the last two times.  I really appreciate their taking two full days to help me out.  Besides I really enjoy the visiting in the car back and forth.  For now, love and prayers, m

Another Cloudy Start

Sorry just a quick note to let you know that I'm on my way down to Mayo yet again!!!  Jimbo is driving me to Rosemont....and Bonnie and Bob will drive me from there.  Then they will bring me all the way back home.  I'll write more later,.  m

Okay, I'm back...actually for about an hour now.  Dispite the snow and later rain, I made it down and back in pretty good time, and safe and sound.

My butt on the other hand it even sorer.  Dr. Nelson says that the drainage may go on for awhile.  She said the whole in about pencil thick and about 2 inches deep.....so it is draining from the pelvic cavity and probably caused from the radiation.  Anyway....she used a curator and scraped it out and then coated it with silver nitrate to encourage the healing.  She says it's good that it is draining....it's not caught inside and not getting caustic....or infection.  Unfortunately, I have to go back down again next week, and probably a few more times after that....we just have to wait it out.  So even though it is getting better all the time, and the swelling and soreness is getting better....it doesn't feel good after they mess around with it!

I think I'll lay on the couch for awhile and then get some cleaning done for Thanksgiving.  Love and prayers, m

Looks Like a Little Rain May Fall

Or snow, or ice....depending on where you live in Minnesota.  But I think it's a few degrees warmer than it was last nite when I went to bed.  Speaking of bed....not a good night for sleep.....don't know exactly why....but the alarm going off at 7:00 a.m. caused me to snooze for another 1/2 hour before crawling out of bed.  I have only a few minutes to enter this...and I need to get in the shower and get to church.

I accomplished grocery shopping, shopping for the boughs at Bachmanns and 3 load of wash....but that was spread out over the hole day.   Oh no....the local news is suggesting no travel as light rain that started last night around 10 p.m. has left the road coated with ice and is causing lots of problems driving on them.  I wonder what I should do.  They are saying that driving was near impossible with hundreds of accidents.  I guess I'll try for church....but really slowly.

Love and prayers, m

P.S.
Just got home from church.....slip sliding away!!!  Going I didn't have a problem till I got to the church parking lot, and it was solid ice.  I slowly made my way into church after sliding into a parking spot without hitting anything.  Then skated back to the car....downhill....the ice hadn't subsided at all.  Once to the main streets, there was no problem till I turned up 109th Lane.....slippery when wet!!!  I tried to turn up my driveway and that was a trick in itself, but making it up the driveway was the real challenge....after trying to make a run for it about 5 times, I finally got out and carefully walked up the snowy edge of the driveway and found my safety salt and threw it over the top half of the driveway which was making the entrance to the garage impossible....then after skating back to the car....very carefully....I made my final run and made it all the way into the garage.  Smelling the hot tires greeted me as I got out of the car to safely walk into the house.  You can bet I'm not going anywhere the rest of the day.  The Vikings and Packers will try to entertain me as I try to beat William with my Fantasy Football team.  William has the edge by about 12 points, so it's not looking good to start.  So the moral of this story is....heed the weatherman's advice and don't drive....atleast in my driveway.  m

Still no Sun and even Colder!

Good Morning, slept in a little again this morning, and not moving too fast.  Went out last evening....the colleges "Legacy Dinner" for the foundation.  It was fun....but you know....sitting for 3 plus hours was a problem....but I did it!!  I squirmed and twitched and moved from cheek to cheek....took a few pills....twisted and turned some more and finally it was time to stand-up.  I spent the last 1/2 hour standing and visiting.  Luckily I was seated all evening with a few retiree's and their husbands, so the conversations and speakers made it a great evening all in all.  They also knew why I was squirming in my chair so I had lots of sympathy.  Being such a people person and having so many to talk to went a long way to muffle the butt!

I saw the GP at Health Partners yesterday afternoon too.  I got my flu shot, and he went over my blood tests and determined my cholesterol was doing so well that he cut my doze of simvastation in half.  He reaffirmed my decision not to have a mamogram as I was probably glowing after all my CT scans, X-rays, Radiation treatments and PETscans.....so I won't have one this year.  My red blood count is coming back up, so all is well there too. 

Did some shopping again yesterday after seeing the doctor, and picked up a few more stocking stuffers and presents....but really need a list form all the family....the older they get the harder it is....adults and grandkids alike.  I've pretty much finished shopping for all except family.  Even got some stocking stuffers for them too.  This may not seem unusual to you, but I normally don't buy anything till the day after thanksgiving.  Then we shop till we drop....which I probably will do anyway.....cept I may drop a lot sooner than usual.  So I've started to pick things up a little at a time.  Can you believe some stores are openning at 3 and 4 a.m.?

Today I need to grocery shop and get that turkey for Thanksgiving.  May checkout Bachmanns for some pine boughs and other greenerie to decorate the pots outside too....before it gets any colder.  Other than that I'm pretty much home-bound today.  Trying to get some dates nailed down for a few Holiday gatherings by email...but haven't come up with any yet.  Need to start planning parties and food.  Got to get that calendar filled in.  Back to the couch for now!!!  Love and prayers, m

Still no Sun

I don't know where it is....hopefully it will be back soon.  Even without the sun, the doctor I saw yesterday thought I looked wonderful!  Especially after all they did to me.  He gave me a copy of the pathology report and it had a blow by blow of everything they did from the moment I got into the operating room till they were done 10 hours later....it's 5 pages filled with the details of the surgery.  I started to read it, and couldn't believe how much they had to do to make me cancer free and able to function for hopefully many years to come.  So I am even more impressed with what a good surgeon Dr. Nelson is, along with her team....I believe she had 4 other doctors in there.  I think they took turns each doing their own thing.  When I thanked her the other day for making me feel so great, she commented that it's her goal to make people better than worse.  I think she accomplished that.  Even with a sore butt the rest of me feels great.

I got 4 phone calls while out at the doctor and shopping yesterday.  I didn't get one call the day before while laying on the couch.  One from a friend who later surprised me with soup and flowers. One from the Mayo to ask a few questions for some research study they are including me in.  One from my dear Aunt Loretta whom I called back when I got home.  She was anxiously awaiting for her daughter Karen to arrive.  Karen had flown home from Switzerland, and will celebrate Thanksgiving with the family for the first time in a long time.  Then while shopping at JoAnn Crafts, Rosie my former boss called.  She thought it was perfect that she called me when I was shopping....as that is one of our favorite things to do.....I say our, as Rosie and I spent many a lunch hour shopping together, as well as other little trips to shop on our days off.

Today I have yet another doctor's appointment....I'm having my annual physical this afternoon.  I hope to have company this morning.  A friend of Bills who spent a lot of time at our house over the years, but I haven't seen for years.  I also already had a call from cousin Tina.  She was wondering who all was going to the Cousins Christmas in Wisconsin in a few weeks.  When I told her that Aunt Loretta was coming she was really excited.  I think it's going to be a great party.

Well I think I'll return to the couch and wait for company to appear.  Love and prayers, m

No Sun....No Shine!

No sun leaves me moving slow.  I depend on it for my energy.  I amazingly enough slept all night without getting up for the bathroom or pain pills.  So that's the best sign of getting better I have had.  My butt is still sore....what's new?....but over all I feel very well.

Today I am going to see my surgeon who has done my previous surgery and who sent me to the Mayo in the first place.  I don't think there is anything he will do, but get caught up on where I've been and what they did etc.  He asked to follow up with me, so it's not like I think I need to see another doctor.  Tomorrow I get to see my GP at Health Partners, and along with that get my flu shot.  I got the results back already of the blood work they did yesterday, and my overall cholesterol is 149, and my RB is 10.9 up from 9.6 3 weeks after surgery....so that is going up.  My platelets were 219 (that's normal level) and my potassium was normal and all the other things they checked on.  So I think the physical will go well tomorrow too.

After the doctor this morning, I will do some shopping.  I was going to run errands yesterday, but stayed pretty close to the couch all day.  I can't believe how much sleep it takes to Heal!  I did manage to put another stamp on my granddaughters birthday card, which came back postage due.  But I just carried it to the mailbox and put up the flag....not much exercise.  Feel bad for those Chicago grandkids, William's package went without a zipcode....now Emily's postage due....and Presley s didn't have any mailing problems on the Post Office side, but grandma was late in mailing it.  But if it makes them feel any better, Ann H. and Doug haven't gotten theirs yet either.  I have them setting on the bed in the back bedroom, but we haven't been able to come up with a day when we can get together to celebrate and eat cake.  It may just happen on Thanksgiving.  As the grandkids get older.....the families' lives become busier and busier.

Well off to the shower.  Talk to you tomorrow....love and prayers, m

Rise and Shine

I set my alarm for 7 a.m.....but forgot to turn it on in the process.  Needless to say I woke up at 7:20 and hit the floor running, as I had a 8 a.m. appointment to have blood drawn for my physical on Friday.  It was a fasting draw....didn't have time for breakfast anyway.  Got dressed and brushed my teeth and headed out in the cold.  After the lab work, I went to Cub to get some oatmeal for my breakfast that I was anxious to eat.  So now I've had my breakfast and a sip of coffee, I'm ready to write.

Yesterday, Bonnie and Bob picked me up at the Mermaid, and wisked me down to the Mayo Clinic, while I reclined in the way back.  We got down there in plenty time, and we didn't wait too long before I was called in.  The doctor and her assistant Kathy, were happy at my progress in healing, but decided to help it along, by cauterizing it.  I'm not sure it was an instant help....now have a more bloody discharge, and I'm set back in the pain level too!  So back to my tylenol/ibuprofen regiment, and the couch!

I do need to run a few errands today, but it will mostly be spent on the couch.  Then tomorrow I am going to see the HP Surgeon who referred me to Mayo, for a follow-up.....and on Friday I'm having my yearly physical and flu shot.  I was supposed to see my oncologist at the HHH Cancer Center next Monday, but Dr. Nelson wants to see me back in Rochester next Monday morning, so I guess I'll have to make a call and change that.  I was really hoping I'd be done with Rochester visits for a while, but as long as my butt isn't totally healed I guess I'll have to continue the trips.  Bonnie and Bob have already volunteered to take me down again next Monday, so I am thankful for that.  I also asked Dr. Nelson if I could transfer back to the city with my oncologist and not return in January for a CTscan, and she recommended I continue to come down, as they have the most recent CTscans to compare with.  So I guess I will follow her advice.

So that's the update for now.  love and prayers, m

Off to Mayo Once Again

I have a 1:30 p.m. appointment today, which means I leave home at 11:10....meeting Bonnie and Bob at 11:30 and then riding with them to Rochester, seeing the doctor for maybe 15-20 minutes, and then having lunch and returning home.  So I should be back just in time for rush hour traffic.  No plans for this evening....but my spot on the couch, watching Biggest Loser.

Last nite I had dinner with my First Friday group at a Mexican restaurant in Coon Rapids, so only had to sit in the car for about 5 minutes.  However, we talked till almost 7 p.m. and I managed to do that without to much problem.  The conversations were great, (varying from politics, religion, cooking and thanksgiving plans) and we figured we've only been meeting for 26 or 27 years, we couldn't exactly pinpoint when we began....but anyway it's been a long time.The numbers of the group have shrunk by about 2 or 3, and we don't all always make it, but the core group goes on.  I've wandered in and out depending on my health, but am always welcomed back and enjoy their friendship a lot.

My bottom is still draining, but I hope that the doctors at Mayo, will turn my care back over to the Coon Rapids doctors at HealthPartners ( a 5 minute drive from home). I have set up appointments to see their surgeon who did all my previous surgery on Thursday and I am having a physical on Friday with my GP and for that I am having labwork early tomorrow morning.  It needs a 12 hour fast, so I scheduled it for 8 a.m.....I'll beable to come home and eat breakfast at a fairly normal time and do my blog.  Then next Monday I have an appointment at HHH Cancer Center, Robinsdale to have my port flushed and see Dr. Londer my oncologist.  So a full week of doctoring....but atleast after today it is all within 20 minutes of home.

Well I must get into the shower so I can get to the Mermaid parking lot by 11:30.  Keep those thoughts and prayers going as I know they are what keeps me going and healing.  Love and prayers, m

Sunny and Cold

I just need the sun to make me high....the cold doesn't bother me as long as I have no place to go......however, I do get to go out tonite for dinner with some friends we call the First Friday group.....I know it's not Friday, but that was a name we gave ourselves when we met the first Friday of each month.  That was about 30 years or longer ago, and we now meet whenever most of us can.

I got several people volunteering to drive me to Mayo tomorrow, but the first were Bonnie and Bob Lammers. As they live in Rosemont, We have chosen a Park and Ride Lot on the North side to meet.  I know I can make a 1/2 trip driving as I did that last week to North Memorial....so a 15 or 20 minute drive won't be bad.  I really appreciate the rest of you that volunteered, but I went with first come first serve!!

Since I wrote after church yesterday, I don't have much to report for the rest of the day.....did have company (Matthew) for a few hours around dinner time, and we had fun playing a game I made up that he could play. It involved some counting and a race, using the cribbage board and he beat me three times without me letting him win.  My usual luck at cards.....even a five year old beats me....but he loved it.  I was also unlucky at fantasy football again this week.  My team usually goes as the Vikings go....even though I don't have a Viking on my team.  I had two on the bench that scored big....but Gary was thrilled to beat me.

The snow didn't totally melt away, but it left all the roads and driveways dry.  I see some people are still without power though. Wow 2 days with below freezing temps.  I feel sorry for them.  Annie was out for 24 hours which is plenty long.  It makes you realize how much you depend on that electricity.  You need to go back to your camping tricks.  Hope you all are staying warm, Love and prayers, m

Snow here yesterday and almost gone today!

We got about 9 inches of snow yesterday, and their still are some wayward flakes floating to the ground, but it is also melting fast.  It sure got me in the mood for the holidays.  I'm late in writing this today, as I started the day by oversleeping, and just having enough time for a shower before church.  Then my dear friends Patty and Denis Tkach took me out for breakfast.  Spent a lot of time catching up with them as it seems like months since I've seen them.  I'm sure it has been months.

After breakfast, since I was close, I stopped at Menards and bought 2 new artificial trees...one for the basement, and one for upstairs.....this is the first year I won't have a real tree in the house for Christmas....I have this nagging feeling that my allergies to the tree is what caused all the spots on my lungs last winter.  I may be all wrong, but I'm not taking any chances.  I'll still put my real tinsel on the tree and all my special ornaments I've used for every Christmas since I got married in 1962.  The same nativity scene too!  I'm sorta sentimental that way.

Snow on the table on my patio!

Yesterday I never got out of my pjs....just watched it snow all day.  I did get some company...Annie, Nicole and Matthew....cause the snow had taken out their power in their neighborhood.  Nicole had a hockey potluck to go to last night, so they needed to come over and cook at my house.  They also plugged in all their phones and Matthews DVD player so they'd have some power when they went back home.  Hope it came back on before they went to bed.  I talked to a lady from my side of town who was still out of power since yesterday at 2 p.m. and they told her it might not be on till later this evening.  Luckily I was warm and with power all through the snow.

I am looking for a volunteer to drive me back to Mayo (hopefully for the last time this year) on Tuesday mid-day.  I think I need to be down their around 1 p.m. so I will need to leave Coon Rapids around 10:30 or 10:45.  I am willing to let you use my car and gas....just don't think I can sit up and drive that far myself.  I'd call and ask someone....but feel I don't want to wear out my welcome! I've had to make so many trips to Mayo and have had so many of you help in that area several times.  So if one of you is willing to volunteer one more time, I'd really appreciate it.

Spending the rest of the day watching football.  Love and prayers, m

Here Comes the Snow! and Emily is 17!

Oh Happy Day!  for the snow lovers.....for me....as long as I don't have to go anywhere and can just look out the window at how beautiful it is....I love it.  Sorry for you who have to work in it.  For me it's a winter wonderland!  The little boy across the street is having a ball playing in it.

My oldest granddaughter turns 17 today.  Sadly she is in Chicago, so not able to see this beautiful snow God has sent to celebrate her big event.  I can't believe she is 17.....I can remember her birth as if it was a few years ago.  It was quite a big event, being the first granddaughter and such a big one at that!  We waited days for her to be born, and forced the doctors into taking her C-section.  She is Tom's oldest and  Tom was my first...so that made her special too. Hope she has a great day.

Yesterday was really nothing compared to my Thursday.  I did do my normal three loads of wash, but that was the highlight of my day.  I got my bill from Mayo....a total of $91,000 that I was responsible for only $325. Thank god for insurance.

I have tapered off with the tylenol, and that seems to be going quite well.  I really can't tell any difference, so maybe I don't need it at all.  I have continued to take the ibuprofen every six hours three times a day, and haven't changed that.  I think it is what is doing the most good.

I don't plan on doing anything today cept looking at the snow! Love and prayers, m

Here Comes the Snow!

Well, probably not today, but tomorrow and Sunday.  Just rain today.  So I'll have to make my own sunshine.....might be hard with only chores planned for the day.  I've got atleast three loads of laundry to do.

Yesterday was a very nice day.  I started early going to a Christian Women's Brunch at Majestic Oaks Country Club, with my friend Jan Ranum.  I guess out of a room of about 60-75 women I knew atleast 4 women....pretty good, although I recognized a few more faces but didn't know their names.  The 4 I did know where mostly flash backs to my past.  One was a women I worked with at Shoppers City.....atleast 35 years ago.  Another was a relative of Mary Christy who lived with mom and dad about 46 years ago. One a lady from the North Suburban Women s Club that I've known for atleast 20 years and another a women from church that had children in my Junior High program 30 years ago. Had a chance to talk with all of them.  I also got my name pulled out of a hat for first timers and won a certificate to attend the December Brunch.  So Jan and I will take advantage of that.  The speaker a 48 year old Christian women from Fergus Falls who lost her husband 5 years ago in a freak bicycle accident when the family was out for a Saturday afernoon bike ride.  She told the story of grieving with hope.....being carried through by her Faith. So a tear jerker, but a lot of the things she said hit home with me and my journey over the last three years since Gene died.  It reinforced how much I've been blessed by my faith and through that, all the prayers, love and encouragement I've received from my family and friends.
Then, most of the group from the brunch proceeded downstairs to the annual Holiday Craft Sale at Majestic Oaks.  What fun shopping.  You would think that by then I would have had the best day ever....but after returning home to the couch, the door bell rang and I went to the door only to recieve a beautiful bouquet of Stargazer Lilies (my favorite) from Mary (#1) Brue.  She tries to down play that and call herself Mary 3/4 but she will always be #1 to me.  When I worked at the college a job that Mary got me, their were three Mary's.  Mary Brue was number 1, chronologically, alphabetically, and in seniority.  I was Mary #3.  As the Mary's left, I ended up being the only Mary employed at the college.  So Mary thought she had to relinquish that title....but I will always call her Mary #1. Mary and I had earlier this week discovered that both of us love stargazer lilies from a questionaire I had responded to in an email. She signed her card: "You're my Hero, Mary 3/4"  So that topped my day!!!
My day was also great in the butt area as well.  I am cutting down on the amount of Tylenol I'm taking, and I was still able to sit mostly through the brunch, and the car ride to and from.  So each day I feel a little stronger and have more energy to get things done.
With my blog as an instigator, I got a hand-stamped card from my friend Barb Skierecki this week.  It read "Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we're here we might as well dance."  I will continue to dance.  Love and prayers, m

Cooling down but the Sun is Shining Brightly

Hi, I had a good day yesterday, lunch out with June and her husband Len, and then some good visiting back at home, shopping for Emily's birthday gift, and then the Colo-rectal Cancer Support Group.  So a big day for me....and I made it without to much discomfort.

The support group was good, it was a small group last nite of only eight, but I think that made it even better.  All that were there had been there the other 3 or 4 times I attended, so I felt like I knew them already.  It gave me a chance to find out that I'm doing really well for just having the surgery last month.  It being the farthest I had driven the car, gave me a boost of confidence too!

I'm off this morning to a Women's Club breakfast and a demo on making Finnish Coffee Cake.....should be interesting.  My friend Jan Ranum is picking me up in about a half hour, so I guess I better get in the shower and get dressed.  Love and prayers, m

Cloudy but still warm!

Don't know what happened, but I had this whole thing typed, and it disappeared on me.  As I was saying, the warm weather will only hold out for a few more days, and then they are predicting a chance of snow by Saturday.  Jimbo will be thrilled....the tire business loves snow!  I on the otherhand, don't mind it as long as I don't have to go out in it.

I had a great day yesterday, went and had my hair cut and colored at Jan's. and when I got home I got a call from Aunt Loretta.  She is planning on coming to MN for the Cousins Christmas and staying with me.  I am so looking forward to that  She keeps checking to make sure I will be up to it, so it is my goal to be up and running by Thanksgiving.

This morning I got an email from my cousin June, and they are coming and taking me out for lunch.  I thought they had left for the winter when they drove Judy to CA and Christopher's wedding, but I guess it was just a 2 week vacation.

I am doing better every day, and even think I will start cutting back on the tylenol and see how that goes.,  I will continue to take the Ibuprofen cause I think that has helped the most.  Keep those thoughts and prayers coming, love ya all, m

Happy Birthday Ann and Doug

Both my daughter-in-law Ann, and my son-in-law Doug, share today as their birthday....but a year apart!  They are so lucky, cause today is probably going to be the best day of Fall we get!....in the mid 60's and the sun is shining brightly.  Oh Happy Day!

Yesterday was a quiet day for me....I found out at 10:45 a.m. that the retiree's were meeting for lunch at 11:30, but although the mind was willing the body was weak.  I just went back to the couch where I stayed most all day.  Didn't accomplish much of anything other than maybe healing some!  My butt feels better every day.

Today I have an appointment to have my hair done....so that will get me dressed and out of the house at least.  Other than that, I don't have any plans.

Tomorrow I will attend a colo-rectal cancer support group.  I attempted these gatherings only 3 or 4 times over the past 3 years since being diagnosed, but surgery and treatments have always gotten in the way of me being a regular.  So hopefully this year I will be better in the attendance record.  I have always learned from this group, and so nice to share with other survivors.

Well, need to get back to that couch before I shower and go to Jan's.  Love and prayers, m

Sparkling Windows lets the Sun Shine In!

Even though it took me three times to get the patio door streak free!...I am so happy to have the sun shining in so brightly.  It makes me happy!

Before breakfast I was washing that patio door for the third time....so been up and moving a lot already this morning.  I had a good nights sleep, and I can't tell you how much better my butt is feeling.  I was even able to sleep on my back for a while last night.

Had a good day yesterday.  I went to church, came home and watched the hair pulling Viking game....but we won, so that helped.....my Fantasy Football team beat Nick's too!  My FFT has the same record as the Vikings, so it was quite a feat to beat Nick.  After the game, I went shopping for Ann and Doug's birthday presents!  Tomorrow is their big day....so have to figure out when the family can get together and celebrate....everyone is so busy with school, work and sports!  But we'll figure something out.

Then last evening I got to play with Matthew for a few hours as Annie and Nicole had to go to Nicole's confirmation program at church!  Matthew brought ToyStory3 with, and we attempted to watch it together on my TV, but it didn't want to work....scratches or something....so Matthew put it on his little portable DVD and had to pretty much watch it by himself....so I watched the Green Bay Packers beat the Colts!

Well, I think it's time for me to lay down again!  Been standing since I got up at 8:00 a.m.  No big plans for the day.....love and prayers, m

Sunday, Sonday!

I actually made it to church and back this morning.  Don't think I could have made it much farther....I'm ready for the couch.  I hope to rest up on the couch and then do some shopping this afternoon.  Taking the ibuprofen is really helping.  Other than that no changes.

I'm proud to say I did get some grocery shopping done yesterday on my own, and even washed the patio door on the outside.  I think I may have to go back and get rid of a few streaks today, but atleast I can see out of it now.

Got this email from Phil (my little brother) today, and thought I should share it with you:
Sometimes we wonder,
'What did I do to deserve this?' or
'Why did God have to do this to me?'
Here is a wonderful explanation!
A daughter is telling her Mother how everything
is going wrong, she's failing algebra, her boyfriend
broke up with her and her best friend is moving away.
Meanwhile, her Mother is baking a cake and
asks her daughter if she would like a snack, and the
daughter says, 'Absolutely Mom, I love your cake.'
'Here, have some cooking oil,' her Mother offers.
'Yuck' says her daughter.
'How about a couple raw eggs?' 'Gross, Mom!'
'Would you like some flour then?
Or maybe baking soda?'
'Mom, those are all yucky!'
To which the mother replies:
'Yes, all those things seem bad all by themselves.
But when they are put together in the
right way, they make a wonderfully delicious cake! '
God works the same way. Many times we wonder why
He would let us go through such bad and difficult 
times. But God knows that when He puts these things
all in His order, they always work for good! We just
have to trust Him and, eventually, they will all
make something wonderful! 
God is crazy about you.
He sends you flowers every spring and
a sunrise every morning.
Whenever you want to talk, He'll listen.
He can live anywhere in the universe,
and He chose your heart. 
Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are
here we might as well dance!

All of you are my cake.....I am so blessed to have the family and friends I have.  Love and prayers, m
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Sunny Side Up!

Long but good day yesterday!  Headed to Mayo via Sharyl Boes' minivan back seat.  After guiding her onto Hwy 52 South, I layed down and slept for about 45 minutes.  That was a good trip!  We got to Mayo at about 8:35 (Sharyl must have been flying) and my appointment was at 9:00, they called me in almost immediately after checking in (another miracle) and the doctor and Dr. Nelson's assistant Kathie were in within minutes.   They checked out my bottom and reported it was looking much better than last week.  They suggested I add some Ibuprofen to my pill regiment of tylenol and to finish the antibiotics (which I did this morning).  Other than that....keep up the good work of healing and come back on the 16th for another recheck.  So within 1/2 hour of arriving, Sharyl and I went to Perkins for breakfast, and headed back home.  We arrived home at noon, and of course I went right to the couch.  I had a date set up with Rosie, Ann and Sandi (all former bosses....in fact I was secretary to all three of them at once at ARCC).  We met at Green Mill at 5 p.m. and then we were supposed to go the college play following dinner....but before I got there I already knew that dinner was all the sitting I'd be able to handle for this day.....and it was.  But I loved dinner and visiting getting caught up on Sandi's pictures of her recent trip to the southwest National Parks,  the election, upcoming retirements of former co-workers, my last journey's through Mayo etc.  We talked so much they were almost late for the play! (Not hard to believe with this group!)

During dinner I got a call from Jimbo, who had just arrived at the cabin, only to find that last week's wind storm had taken down 2 more of our cedar trees and another half gone tree as well.  The funny part is one of them right in front of the new stairs into the cabin, is one Jimbo had almost paid $450 to have removed a month ago....but he figured it was too high a price....so mother nature took care of it for us.  The other was also pretty dead and near the new basement window of his bedroom.  So probably a blessing too!  The other blessing is that I had the power lines buried....otherwise both trees would have taken them out.....leaving us with no heat....as it is an all electric home now.  Also mother nature didn't harm the new or old cabin at all.  Thanks be to God!

The addition of Ibuprofen has been a God send as well.   I can't believe they didn't suggest it earlier, as it takes down inflamation.....and it really works good!  I slept well last night, I've gained a couple of pounds this week (probably all the salty food at the restaurants yesterday) and am generally feeling great.  I will try to do a little more standing and activity this week, and gain some stamina.  Thank you so much for staying with me in prayer.   Love and prayer, m

Short and Sweet

I'm actually writing this at about 6:10 a.m.  Yes I am out of bed.  Already ate my breakfast and working on that first cup of coffee.  I have to be in Rochester at 9 a.m., and Sharyl Boes (neighbor) is going to drive me down.  She also drives a van with a bench across the back so I'll be lying down most of the way.

I am seeing the surgeon this morning for a recheck of the abscess I have below my tailbone.  It has been draining for the last week and I have been on antibiotics all week.  We'll see what they think today.  I can't tell if it's getting smaller or not. 

I will report later in the day what she says.

Yesterday I had a visit from friend Bonnie Sass, which I enjoyed a lot.  But stayed on the couch most all the day. Nothing else exciting.,  Love and prayers, m

Healing Sunshine

I must say....the sunshine always makes me happy and I'm sure it brings healing. 

A little late in writing today....just started and got a phone call from friend Bonnie Sass, and she is coming to visit today as she is in town for a few days. (she lives in Emily, MN)  Hope to maybe make some plans for our winter trips.  I need something to look forward to.  So that should be fun.

Yesterday, I got a call from Aunt Loretta, (I sure hope I can live as long and be so spry and sharp.)  She is looking forward to Karen coming to visit from Switzerland for Thanksgiving.  Only two weeks away.  She is also looking forward to coming for the Cousins Christmas Party on Dec. 11 in Wisconsin at cousin Annie's restaurant.  It will be a treat for me to host her.  Kathleen and I have adopted her as our mom, and she is a close match.

Right after talking to Loretta, I got an email from Karen, and she gave me several remedies for RLS, all which included schnapps, but it was rubbing it on etc.  I think the schnapps might work, but drinking a shot before bed would be my cure.  Unfortunately I don't have the access to it they have on hand.....living in the moistier.  She also sent me these comments: "I really hope your discomfort will be further behind you than it
currently is... It sounds iike your healing process still has one  loose end to fix :-) ..."  Yes, Karen the discomfort is in my butt constantly behind me and I'd love to loose it.,  and it is a loose end!!!

Not much else to report, going back to the couch.  Love and prayers, m

Sunny, Sunny Day!

Love waking up to the sunshine, and it looks like this weekend when we fall back, I get that sun a little earlier in the morning.  I hate the thought of it getting dark earlier, but I guess that is the trade-off.

Yesterday was filled with a few new accomplishments, but not without some problems as well.  I drove myself to the polling place and voted mid-day.  The first time I drove the car in over a month.  It was only a 5 minute drive, but it wasn't without pain.  It seems I am in constant pain or aching when putting pressure on that tailbone.  I take 2 extra-strength tylenol every six hours, but I don't really ever feel like it is doing any good....but then again I haven't tried to go without it either.  So I really don't know how much better I must feel.

Then last evening I attempted to go to card club.  I did get picked up at 6:15 by LaVonne, and already I was thinking it might not be a good idea...but on I went.  I gingerly sat through a couple of hours of 500, but started wilting and thankfully LaVonne was willing to take me home, shortly after 9 p.m.  I got home around 9:30 and went right to the couch.  However, the election and stimulation of card club kept me wide awake till about 11:30 p.m. when I finally gave up and went to bed.....but that was to no avail.  I figured out that the more I am in a upright position during the day, the more restless leg syndrome I have at night.  I tossed and turned well into the night, and finally got up and took more tylenol at 1:30 a.m. (a little early) but hoping it would silence my legs and let me rest.  I did finally go to sleep, but kept playing the election in my dreams, and woke up wondering what had really happened.  Too close to call....my dreams were right!!!  I guess I didn't get much rest, but have no plans for today except resting.  I will try not to sit if at all possible.  I am even standing typing this.

Got a fun phone call from my nephew Hung Ly (a.k.a. Paul Schoenecker) who has taken back his birth name.  He claims my brother (his dad) is becoming his father, our dad...or that he is not aging gracefully.  I laughed at that. Grandpa did get a little grumpy in his old age....but when I think of all the problems he had, I think I might be grumpy too....and Bill is no exception.

I got another phone call as I was leaving cards last night from Annie with the news that Nicole has made the Coon Rapids High School hockey team.  I'm so happy for her.  She's a great skater and has a love for the game.

Nothing more to report, I'm headed back to the couch.  Love and prayers, m

Welcome Sunshine in my Window

The sun is shining and there is a promise of a beautiful day.  For some reason I was awake in the middle of the night, but then I fell a sleep and didn't wake up til 9 a.m.  So that is why I'm writing late this morning.  I must have needed the sleep, and I feel great.  Sitting is still a problem, I wonder when it will be better?

Today I will go and vote, and be so thankful not to have to see those political ads of the TV anymore....till the next election. This will be my first try at driving the car.  But it's just a mile from home, so I think I can handle that. Then this evening I am attempting to go to card club.  I have LaVonne Kulseth picking me up, along with a bunch of others, and then when we get to Lois's in Anoka we will spread out to two car loads to head for Elk River and Twylla Prather's place. Wish me luck!

My body seems to be getting back to normal (cept for my butt).  I've continued to keep my weight, the antibiotics haven't caused any diarrhea.  So that hasn't been a problem....but my butt continues to drain a clear liquid off and on.  Wish it would come to an end....or stop.   It's time for my shower, so I'll write again tomorrow.  Love and prayers, m

New Day....New Month

The witch that greeted the trick or treaters.

Bill, Katie, Tommy and Kim

Katie Confirmation 10/31/10

Hoping November brings we lots more healing and strength. October was a big month for me, and I'm kinda glad it is over.  Looking forward to the holidays and lots of fun parties.

I'm holding my weight, eating doesn't seem to be a problem, and constance has been behaving herself.  My new stoma is really new and improved.  My butt continues to give me problems, but is getting better.  Sitting is not my favorite thing to do yet....I prefer laying or standing.

Yesterday after brunch at Bill and Kim's, I went to the Confirmation of Katie.  I managed to make it through the whole ceremony....standing was great....sitting was not.  But I did it.  I managed to get really tired and went home and slept through the Vikings, but was up and dressed in my witches costume for the Trick or Treater"s. I scared a lot of little ones, but they all managed to put their pail out for the candy I had in my hand.  It was a fun night.  I also skypd Kathleen and Gary, and the Chicago Kieckers.  Unfortunely the kids didn't have their costumes on anymore, and Kennedy was not home, but Presley loved talking to the witch.

Emily seemed to beat the pants off my fantasy football team, but actually I think my team didn't even show up.  My team is kinda like the Vikings.....hopeless!

Don't have any big plans for the day....laundry and resting.  Hope you like my pictures.  Love and prayers, m